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My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 4 years. We broke up a few months ago. Yesterday, I talked to him for the first time since we broke up. He called saying that he was sorry. He was sorry for everything that he put me through in our relationship. He was sorry for always being such a jerk and having a short temper. He told me that he wishes he could go back in time and fix everything. He told me that he quit his job (which he thinks was the source of his anger), that he is buying a house and he is finally ready to start his life. He said that he wished he had committed to me when we were together and he wished he could have told me then how he really felt. I know that everything he said to me was hard for him to say. But I don’t know what to do. I still have feelings for him and part of me wants to be with him. But for us to be together again it will take a lot of time and work. I have already put a lot of time and work into this relationship just to have it fail once. I want to get married and have a family. But I dont want to waste my time either. Plus my family and friends pretty much hate him for everything he put me through. I am not sure what to do. I know he is being sincere, but I am not sure how long it will take before he becomes the time-bomb he was before. Can people really change? Should I forget about it and pursue another relationship? Should I take the time to work this relationship out? I really don’t know…
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