boyfriend help: Sex question.

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Sex question.

I really don’t know how to put this. My boyfriend and I have attempted sex, he gets it in moves around a bit and that’s it. We’ve done this twice now and it was my first time so I knew it was going to hurt; but it doesn’t really hurt i just get this burning feeling. Afterwards is when the discomfort starts because it’s very sensitive and it hurts to sit a certain way. Is this “normal”? What can I do to lessen the pain?

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

There’s going to be some degree of pain the first few times. I think you need to tell your boyfriend to go more slowly since you’re hurting afterward. The amount of pain you feel is dependent on your boyfriend.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

Thats NOTHING Wait till you hit the lotto from doing it and have to Birth a CHILD!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

‘Moves around a bit’…???? You’re doing it wrong.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

southern_comfort wrote:
‘Moves around a bit’…???? You’re doing it wrong.

lol

it does hurt a bit the first few times. i remember i had to get on the back of a motorbike after and go over speed bumbs. now thats discomfort! it gets better. you just gotta relax the muscles

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

SEX QUESTION…. DO YOU WANT A CHILD? lol O but others say it is FUN!!! right… im sorry i know this question is for an answer but really… um SEX is how babies are made.. protection fails.. just think about telling your parents your prego… or having to make the choice of what is right .. on your own or with the help of others… the names when you get prego… the looks… the voices you hear … Stopping all schooling.. and stopping work in the end… lol ya ummm Sorry But hey HAVE Fun!!! Party on right and as David Allan Coe, Sang …One of the 3 biggest lies… it will only hurt for a little while!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Wait for it ……….

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (3 hours, 50 minutes after post)

The main thing that concerns me is the “burning feeling” comment…what do you mean it burns?

The rest of it sounds normal enough…except the moving around bit. Thats more of a pop in then anything else.

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