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this seems silly but im getting really frustrated.

my bedroom is not too big. maybe approx 10x 8 feet. but i have ALOT of furniture. a chest of draws, a double wardrobe, a triple wardrobe, a set of 3 draws, a chest and a small desk/shelf thing as well as my single bed. theres no space left for anything else. all walls are covered with furniture.

and even tho theres so much storage space i still have no where to but stuff and incapable of keeping it tidy.

i recently sold a lot of junk on ebay and downsized everything. the chest of draws, double wardrobe and 3 draws are now pretty much empty. all i need to do is get rid of them and i can get my kingsize bed.

problem is theres no where else for them to go. they car all go to my grans coz she wont have space. and i cant sell them coz, well, there my parents and they dont want to sell them. (i live with my parents)

so im getting annoyed, the whole house is constantly a mess and i just want my own place, i really want to buy a house, with a mortgage and stuff, but i have no idea how, and its impossible on my puny wage and by myself. so im stuck here. annoyed by the mess we live in.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

are you paying them rent? if not stay there and save your money. I dont know if your in school, but if you are take any help your parents give. Just tuff it out and focus on improving your future. Then you can have a nice place to yourself and decorate however you want. Just my opinion because this sound similar to my family life. My moms a mild hoarder but I should have taken the free rent and worked hard for the future.

are you paying them rent? if not stay there and save your money. I dont know if your in school, but if you are take any help your parents give. Just tuff it out and focus on improving your future. Then you can have a nice place to yourself and decorate however you want. Just my opinion because this sound similar to my family life. My moms a mild hoarder but I should have taken the free rent and worked hard for the future.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

thanks anon. yeah i pay rent. im gonna start saving but i keep saying that, i actually have a problem. cant save to save my life. im 24, i really need to get out and start being independent. i still feel like a child. all my friends are getting married, having kids and buying houses and im still stuck at home :( i feel pretty worthless

thanks anon. yeah i pay rent. im gonna start saving but i keep saying that, i actually have a problem. cant save to save my life. im 24, i really need to get out and start being independent. i still feel like a child. all my friends are getting married, having kids and buying houses and im still stuck at home :( i feel pretty worthless

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Anonymous #
11 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Sounds like im in the exact same boat, you should right down your goals and when u want to give up or spend money that isnt in your budget review your goals and stay strong. Im 25 and still in school. I made mistakes and my friends are farther along than me but I have to accept it and keep taking small steps to further myself. you should join websites like learnvest.com they inspire me to save money.

Sounds like im in the exact same boat, you should right down your goals and when u want to give up or spend money that isnt in your budget review your goals and stay strong. Im 25 and still in school. I made mistakes and my friends are farther along than me but I have to accept it and keep taking small steps to further myself. you should join websites like learnvest.com they inspire me to save money.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (16 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Look into buying a rental property and save a unit for yourself:)
Talk to others that already own some about the pros and cons.

Look into buying a rental property and save a unit for yourself:) Talk to others that already own some about the pros and cons.

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