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I want to verify if this could count as child abuse.

I live with my mother and stepfather, and my mother, in the past few years, has been emotionally abusive to me. She tells me to “shut up” a lot, strictly controls where I go and what I do, doesn’t even allow me to post what I want to on my Facebook wall. And a few days ago, I was feeling stressed out and I was trying to talk to her about going to see a counselor. I told her my thoughts about my stepfather, which are they he is mean and uncompassionate. She responded by hitting me several times over the head, sending me to the room, and then later, when I confronted her about what happened in the hallway, she hit me even more, pushed me to the ground, and for a moment I believed she was going to strangle me before she got off of me. She’s told me not to tell anyone that she “slapped” me, to put it in the past, and is pretending everything is normal. Is this normal? Please help.

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Blue Simian offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

It is not normal or right. Report it to an adult you can trust. A guidance counselor at school or perhaps a neighbor.

Here’s a tip: if someone does something, then tells you not to tell anyone, it a good bet that person knows what they did was wrong.

Good luck.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Sneezing on a kid is child abuse if you have the right cop. If she leaves visible marks on you that you can show a cop is usually the threshold for abuse. Of course when I was a kid we got beat until our butts turned blue and it was discipline. Everyone had a paddle.

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