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I really want a baby, & I think Im ready & I’d like some opinions !
Heres my story first ..
Im 20, I will be 21 next spring. Me & my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years, we have a great relationship but as all couples do we have our fights & what not but we always work everything out. We both work, he has two jobs & I have one. Im planning on doing some online courses or going to a local school to become a Veterinary Assistant or a Medical Assistant, most likely this September. We live with my parents but the house is big 2 floor plus an attick & basement, I have the entire basement to myself which is 2 finished rooms one is my bedroom & the other is a living room. I know everyones gonna say your too young just wait get married first & all that, but I look at it as I’ve done almost everything I started partying & drinking when I was very young I’ve had my share of boyfriends & what not & I’ve done a bunch of crazy stuff & now its getting old to me Im kind of like okay whats next ? I used to look foward to going out & getting drunk every weekend but this past year & a half I just want something more out of life & I cant stop thinking about babies. I love children I always have I love taking care of them, playing with them everything. I understand being a parent is a 24/7 job, but Im willing to do it. I want to do it. & Lately so many young girls around me have been having babies & its just like if they can do it why cant I ?
Opinions & advice please :)
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