friends help: How would you feel if you found out that one of your friends - Help.com

i would think it’s in bad taste, generally. this friend, did they ‘ask’ if it was ok(from my experience friends should, even just as a courtesy)? were they aware of your relationship status(or lack of)? did they know you would disapprove of this(as common sense as it may seem)? did you make it a point to this friend that you don’t give a crap about what your ex does and you’re totally over the douche? so many factors… if you’re over him or at least have decided to move on with your life, i’d say it’s none of your business. your friends choice, again is in poor taste imo, yet their choice is their own. in the end it happened, you can’t do anything to change it nor can you stop it may it happen again. if you feel this friend is no longer worthy than let them know and say your goodbyes. if you still want them as a friend and they still want to be w/ your ex, ask them to respect your decision of not bringing him up to you ever, just like you will respect their decision to still be w/ him without bringing it up nor throwing it in her face.

i wouldn’t care

thanks you guys. well i hadn’t been sepaking to her much since we started college, we never spoke about him, or whether i was over him or not. she cheated on her boyfriend with him and he cheated on this girl too. so i guess they were just as bad as eachother, and to be honest i mean he was a douche, and he can do whatever with his life, but its just her i was abit shocked with…. she cheated on her amazing boyfriend… for a douche like my ex, and i just dont understand how people can go after guys there friends have already been with…. its just wierd for me because i couldnt do that :/