I am confused. Did a guy break up with you or are you talking about death? I am sorry if this is insensitive, I am just not sure what to say.
I think I understand what you mean. Sorry to hear this
I think I also understand but i’m not 100%.
Sorry to hear the news, it’s saddening when things like this happen but i hope that people aren’t hurt emotionally to much by what happened.
It´s a friend that hung himself.
Grim_Hardcastle wrote:
It´s a friend that hung himself.
Oh, that dose sound bad, i wasn’t far off though.
I do mean it when i say that I’m truly sorry for you loss, no one should have to be pushed as far as taking their own life away.
Geck0 wrote:
Grim_Hardcastle wrote:
It´s a friend that hung himself.
Oh, that dose sound bad, i wasn’t far off though.
I do mean it when i say that I’m truly sorry for you loss, no one should have to be pushed as far as taking their own life away.
Your concern is appreciated.
My dad killed himself. It is a really tough thing to deal with. It still bothers me over 10 years later…
Big Daddy wrote:
My dad killed himself. It is a really tough thing to deal with. It still bothers me over 10 years later…
It will never go away.
One must accept the fact and take whatever good one can and leave the rest.
Yeah the **** just gets deeper, all you can do is keep your head up and and march forward.
God can heal all wounds it will take time but it does get better trust and give it to god simply by asking him to take whatever hurtful emotion u are bearing off of u! So sorry for the loss!
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11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 21 hours after post)
honestly i love the idea of suicide…i think of it as the true liberation, and there is no other way to achieve it in true sense.
thnx for sharing the post. i can see more and more people have liberating themselves.(btw i never and never did encourage anyone for it, just because repliers here are grown ups and sensible and less chance of others coming , i thought i could share my views)
Anonymous wrote:
honestly i love the idea of suicide…i think of it as the true liberation, and there is no other way to achieve it in true sense.
thnx for sharing the post. i can see more and more people have liberating themselves.(btw i never and never did encourage anyone for it, just because repliers here are grown ups and sensible and less chance of others coming , i thought i could share my views)
I don´t see it that way but i do understand the point. And i think it´s good to bring that forth as well. Some will not react well to it though.
Life to me is precious and i want to squeeze all i can from it. Then i´ll have another go i guess. This experience is unique and i don´t think one can ever get it back. It goes on to something else. I had a thought on how it would be bliss to be free from life. Now i think it´s not about that, but being free in oneself. Everything changes down that path.
Anonymous wrote:
honestly i love the idea of suicide…i think of it as the true liberation, and there is no other way to achieve it in true sense.
thnx for sharing the post. i can see more and more people have liberating themselves.(btw i never and never did encourage anyone for it, just because repliers here are grown ups and sensible and less chance of others coming , i thought i could share my views)
As interesting as that point of view is, i agree that a lot of people may not take your point of view in a positive way.
I’m guessing that you posted as Anonymous because you knew this but even so, be careful if your going to say things like that to people.
Geck0 wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
honestly i love the idea of suicide…i think of it as the true liberation, and there is no other way to achieve it in true sense.
thnx for sharing the post. i can see more and more people have liberating themselves.(btw i never and never did encourage anyone for it, just because repliers here are grown ups and sensible and less chance of others coming , i thought i could share my views)
As interesting as that point of view is, i agree that a lot of people may not take your point of view in a positive way.
I’m guessing that you posted as Anonymous because you knew this but even so, be careful if your going to say things like that to people.
sure.
i totally agree with gek0 …views of anon are offensive to those who enjoy living it. .most people wish to live eternity….science discovers new and newer methods to live longer…people apply even weird tricks to add years…i can’t understand how is it liberation. and i don’t think its what you really want , ie. to die.
I think anonymous saw the idea of suicide as a liberation from life and all its worries. Imagine being a ghost in the spirit world wandering around invisible. Even my kids think that would be cool.
But the problem with suicide is it is the ultimate cop out. I don’t want to deal with it anymore… you do it now, you leave everyone in pain and heartbreak. I don’t care how liberating it might seem at the time it is something that is only destructive.
My 16 year old uncle killed himself before I was born. The pain caused by that caused my aunt to commit suicide two weeks later, and the entire family to break up and scatter to opposite ends of the globe. My grandparents gave up the life in the city and a publishing company to live as hermits in the middle of nowhere and dedicated the inside of their house to the keeping of his memory alive
Its never an answer. There are always other ways out.
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11 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)
Life is unfair and rude and this is a well established fact. Liberation is a possibilty to go somewhere that makes sense. Your uncle is probably at much-much better place than here on earth where he was in obviously in great pain….I totally accept his decision. It takes lots more courage to let go everything in the world and take that step than living a life of suffering and pain.
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