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off putting things girls do when on a date?

I’m going on a date in 5 days and i want this guy to like me, so what may put him of me?

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Dr. Jackson offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Put him with you? Can you redefine your question. The first question contradicts the second question.

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Laudanuum offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Talking about Ex’s
Not eating much if you go for a meal
Moaning

That’s all I can think of.

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sara111 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

okay, thank-you

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Using your phone too much. I hate that!

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

if you’re going to a place to eat, not eating would be one(and/or chewing with your mouth open. or just getting a ’salad’-specially if that’s not your norm). if you’re a yapper i’d try to let him talk about himself for a while(easily accomplished by asking him questions about himself). not saying thank-you if he does anything for you(paying for you, driving you, pulling out your chair, opening the door etc). burp/fart/pick your nose and all of that… XD

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sara111 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

okay, i won’t do any of them haha. Thank-you

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Laudanuum offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Actually

fractal.scatter wrote:
Using your phone too much. I hate that!

This would be the worse thing you could do. I’d leave straight off if someone was using their phone too much whilst on a date.

Nothing more irritating.

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sara111 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

do you hate girls who wear too much makeup? Or does that not bother boys?

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

i’m not a guy, yet i hate and disapprove of drawn-on eyebrows. specially when they purposely look unnatural(and yes, ppl can tell if you have real ones or they’re drawn on).

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Laudanuum offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Yeah too much make up isn’t great either… Especially too much fake tan. Sitting in front of an orange clown isn’t attractive.

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BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 51 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Lay off the beans & cabbage. It’s hard to be romantic whilst immersed in a foul miasma of flatulence.. and the sound effects really kill it too.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

If your panties don’t ever make it to the floor it may put him off you.

BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 51 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

Big Daddy wrote:
If your panties don’t ever make it to the floor it may put him off you.

Just don’t wear any. http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ycWOTszUVuw…

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Geck0 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

The most i’d suggest makeup wise is some face cream, mascara and lipstick (not bright red)things like fake tans and strong eye highlighter are the ugliest things I’ve seen girls put on their faces.

Also, like fractal.scatter and Laudanuum wrote, using your phone whilst on a date shows that your not that interested in him and a lot of people hate it.

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Geck0 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

I call this scary (to much makeup)

http://i.eatliver.com/2007/2291.jpg

I would be fine with this

http://blu.stb.s-msn.com/i/92/86737C3…

Sorry about making a big deal out of it, it just annoys me that so many girls think it’s a good idea to do this sort of thing.

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

lol chucky’s bride…

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izzitd offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

Agreed….I went out on a date yesterday and at the end of it I told her ‘Look,I think you may be better off dating your cell phone” and rolled out. Seriously. It’s just rude. Constantly using your phone around him does n ot in any way shape or form say ‘Hey I am enjoying spending time with you’….more like ‘Hey I’m enjoying…oh wait Janie just posted a new status on Facbook,one sec’

HUGE red flag from a male point of view.

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Voices Inside offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 48 minutes after post)

izzitd wrote:
Agreed….I went out on a date yesterday and at the end of it I told her ‘Look,I think you may be better off dating your cell phone” and rolled out. Seriously. It’s just rude. Constantly using your phone around him does n ot in any way shape or form say ‘Hey I am enjoying spending time with you’….more like ‘Hey I’m enjoying…oh wait Janie just posted a new status on Facbook,one sec’

HUGE red flag from a male point of view.

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