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There is this girl I like.

I think she is into me as well, I have talked to her a few times and I feel an attraction towards her. My fear is that like in the past, I will get too obessive with her and turn her away. I did ask her to hang out via facebook and she said okay. The thing is I feel like it wont happen, and I am too afrraid to ask her in real life.

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Blue Simian offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Be honest and tell her your nervous about dating her. Don’t be a spaz. Just be honest and forthright. Tell her that you really like her and your afraid of screwing things up and could she help you be a better person. Ask her to let you know if your being too possessive. Again, be honest and forthright and let her help you. If she is into you, she’ll jump at the chance. Women love to improve men in anyway they can.

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Thanks, I am not sure if I want to date her. I just want to find out more about her.

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Chrona offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Blue Simian wrote:
Be honest and tell her your nervous about dating her. Don’t be a spaz. Just be honest and forthright. Tell her that you really like her and your afraid of screwing things up and could she help you be a better person. Ask her to let you know if your being too possessive. Again, be honest and forthright and let her help you. If she is into you, she’ll jump at the chance. Women love to improve men in anyway they can.

Not gonna lie, from recent expierience, this does work, but it depends on your relations with the girl, how much you trist her, and how you word it. Your unsure if you want to date her, but you like her, so just explain it like that. Tell her that you trust her enough and feel like she’d understand if you told her you have a crush on her and that its something you can’t really control. Weather or not you wanna take it farther or not is something you have to think about. rust me and him, it works. (As long as you word what your saying and feeling clearly)

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