Family help: I might have to put my sister up for adoption

~Empress~ Hazelnut

I might have to put my sister up for adoption

It saddens me,words cant describe
I feel like i should try harder, pick another job
But all i get from my family is chatter here and there
No one cares to hand me assistance in the form of funds
My mother darling isnt fit, she is in her own bubble

I feel lost again but not?
How could i put my own baby sister up for adoption?
I feel and know i wont be able to provide for her, i know if i do ill have had no care for me and all for her.
I hate this and i feel just angry..No one to help me but myself

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~Empress~ Hazelnut invited 16 users to read this post 11 months, 4 weeks ago.

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stone_wolf_09 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

try researching assistance in your state

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red1263 14 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

I don’t think putting your sister up for adoption, is your choice to make. But I also think that you should do what you think is right.

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mindhealer 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Here’s some assistance links http://gethelpflorida.org/211resource…

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Dr. Jackson 43 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

How old is she?

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AKITHMA 83 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Fear is a curse for that which is gifted

I do prayer your situation alters immediately in all that God bestow
May they have their daily bread and that cup runs over in blessing
Fear empty from the house of no hope
Taketh the poison of his affliction
and grace and prosperity faith and kindred establishment remain and reign supremely seeded in perfection forever so be it

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Max 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 28 minutes after post)

I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this.
I can’t offer any advice because I have no idea want I’d do.
I do have faith in you, your caring nature and strength will find the answer:)
May God Bless you:)

Help me with: An important reminder and a “Vision” of real strength.

Chunkymoves 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Details?

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~Empress~ Hazelnut 30 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Max wrote:
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this.
I can’t offer any advice because I have no idea want I’d do.
I do have faith in you, your caring nature and strength will find the answer:)
May God Bless you:)

For the darnest reason i cant fathom you uttering God bless you. And when you think you have formulated an idea of a person they show you a side which you never saw. haha or i couldnt..I still am not sure.

Dr. Jackson wrote:
How old is she?

she is going to be 5 this november.

red1263 wrote:
I don’t think putting your sister up for adoption, is your choice to make. But I also think that you should do what you think is right.

how is it not? Ive been taking care of this child for 2 and half YEARS. And this finally has putten a strain on me.

In america education is free, well paid by our tax dollars but free. where she is it cost a hefty sum to send a child to school and the price for her every month and year is increasing!!

If my mother is still in la la land. Than i might as well be the adult and do something. i just am lost on my own now i have acquired a child PRICELESS

Ah well

Chunkydore wrote:
Details?

huh not sure if thats enough details up there. But all else once my migrain is gone ill prob tell more. But ahhhhh

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Max 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

lol..ya..I’m a mystery, but somethings I do take serious and don’t fool around with.
I do wish you good results:)

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~Empress~ Hazelnut 30 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

We are all mysteries, sometimes i guess we surprise ourselves.

Only result im seeing is im not sure haha but thankx max :)

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Mohit M 16 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

i hope you get to keep her

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~Empress~ Hazelnut 30 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

eh it doesnt matter to me much anymore. My mother is being a pain in the asss

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Mohit M 16 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (4 months, 4 weeks after post)

sorry about that can you tell me more about yourself

~Empress~ Hazelnut wrote:
eh it doesnt matter to me much anymore. My mother is being a pain in the asss

Help me with: I was in a lot of pain.

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