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Self Realization

I realized that men like me shouldn’t be alive. This world has no use for people like me. I in no way help others, my family , Friends or Co- workers. I am a liability to this world. There is no aim or goal in my life. I am still alive and surviving each day only because of my family. They protect n cover me from the harsh realities of this world. They did an excellent job. But now i can’t face this world. Cannot make any friends, or keep them. cannot do any thing right. cannot think fr my self and plan for the future. do not have any motivation or confidence to take up any task n complete it successfully. No it is not the mistake of my family I am like this. It is mine, I’m responsible for my actions. The mistakes i did cannot be corrected. Because of me others are also blamed and gets in trouble… no point in living like this, this humiliation. There is nothing else to do………………

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

You are right:

I’m responsible for my actions

 
But you can change your actions, after you’ve changed your negative attitude.
Realign your life — right now!
 
“Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.”
(Eleanor Roosevelt, 1901 – 1962)

“Perspectives on life!”:
http://www.paulabrandantlcsw.com/?p=185

“4 Effective Practices for Gaining Perspective”:
http://www.thechangeblog.com/4-effect…

“Keeping Perspective When Life Smacks You Up”:
http://www.earthlingcommunication.com…

“Meaning of life”:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meaning_…

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Kinda right there with you. But we’re hear for a reason. I take medication
I know lots don’t believe in prescriptions, But they help
Been on man, many different kinds. On Pristiq now,
it seems to help.
Talking to the people here is great,
sometimes you can find a ques to answer

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

I really don’t have a good friend, with whom i can open up.. i never had.. friends just come n go!!!

This is the 1st time i’m telling this to some one… I was thinking of speaking to my family. but i think it will….. will kill them!!

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I really don’t have friends either
The people here at help.com are my friends
I’d like to be yours. Only thing i use the library computer
and can only stay an hour
and NO on killing your family, it’s very messy, with the blood
& the bodies than there’s the police, jail is not a pretty place

Stay calm, take a walk Sending you a Giant Cyber Hug

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I really don’t have a good friend, with whom i can open up.. i never had.. friends just come n go!!!

Look out for REAL friends and KEEP them.
 
“How to Make Friends”:
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends

“50 Ways to Meet people and Make New Friends”:
http://researchanalyst.hubpages.com/h…

“25 Places To Meet New People”:
http://www.essortment.com/25-places-m…

“How to keep friendship?”:
http://peoplerelationships.syl.com/es…

“10 Ways To Keep Your Friendship Strong”:
http://losu.org/relations/10-ways-to-…

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Thought i was making a friend with my neighbor
Wrong, she’s a hoarder, I like or organize
but now she’s moving & wants me to help her clean
Maybe it’s best without people

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d-man offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

I don’t have good friends either… Some things i regret
1. No Best Friend
2. No girl friend
3. No Hanging out in Malls
4. Never went to any PUB, Disco Bar etc
5. After School didn’t know what to do
6. After college didn’t know about higher, Master, Abroad studies
7. No idea about job
8. Every day the same, Work - Home , Home - Work!!
9. Being left out on friends reunion n parties
10. Don’t know whom to turn when facing a Big or Small problem in work n personnel life

well i hope after reading this you feel better thinking there are people far worse than in your situation

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

This too shall pass.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

And I say that only because I know how it feels being in your situation, and know how it feels to have changed. Things do get better, and before you can even comprehend. Things can go one of two ways: You get yourself so down that you can’t get up, or you pick yourself up, dust your shoulders off and keep pushing. Things get better when you try. Just be patient, and don’t give up. Life will go on, you will get stronger, and reflect on how you made yourself better.

Stay gold my friend.

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Hmm those links seems good… checking out one by one…

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Hi mate!!! My work place sucks!!!! No one is my age. Every one is either much Older than me or much Younger.. and the only one with the same age group is in much lower grade than me. my seniors won’t approve a close friendship with him saying i’ll lose my authority over them! [WTF] and there are no females at all………………………………………

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Now i think I know what is my problem. I think i’m too lazy! Too lazy to commit to a simple task, too lazy to do something innovative & take initiative…. Just too LAZY!

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Now i think I know what is my problem. I think i’m too lazy! Too lazy to commit to a simple task, too lazy to do something innovative & take initiative…. Just too LAZY!

“How to Overcome Laziness”:
· http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Laziness
· http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/02/…

“Overcoming Laziness To Get Things Done — 5 ways”:
http://bloggingbits.com/overcome-lazi…

“12 Tips to Overcome Laziness”:
http://www.successconsciousness.com/o…

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