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This feels kind of stupid but I am feeling desperate right now so here it goes.

We are moving from my hometown my whole life to a placew where I know 0 people. We are staying in a hotel but can only stay here for a few more weeks and my sanity truly can’t take much more. Add to that we are trying to put our house up on short sale but I am relying entirely on other people to do that. We are broke and in debt but my husband seems to think it’s ok to be that way. That seems unfair of me because he is dealing with his own family issues which he will post about on facebook but not come to me about. I went from being a full time working mother who couldn’t make ends meet to a stay at “home” mom who isn’t doing any better at it. There is a light and a way some where in all of this but I truly don’t see it right this moment.

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Ahhotep offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Maybe you could return to your former profession and possibly your town as well.?

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AmberLeeChadwic offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Niether is a possibility the first because the company I was with is in bankruptcy and not likely to emerge as a company at all the second because I won’t strand my husband here. But thanks for the ideas.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 32 minutes after post)

AmberLeeChadwic wrote:
Niether is a possibility the first because the company I was with is in bankruptcy and not likely to emerge as a company at all the second because I won’t strand my husband here. But thanks for the ideas.

Look out for a new job, and strengthen your autonomy!
It’s normal to know 0 people on a new place, but go out and meet people there!

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