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My Boyfriend has had cyber “encounters” (skype, chat) throughout the duration of our relationship about 2-3 times / month.

It has never taken away from out relationship (been prioritized). I discovered this and confronted him, and he claimed it is purely unemotional which I believe is true. Should i consider this cheating and dump him right away? Or should I acknowledge that all men have a drive for variety and I should be grateful his weak moments were with a computer rather then in real life?

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Anonymous edited this post 11 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

My Boyfriend has had cyber sex (skype, chat) throughout the duration of our relationship about 2-3 times / month. It has never taken away from out relationship (been prioritized). I discovered this and confronted him, and he claimed it is purely sexual which I believe is true. Should i consider this cheating and dump him right away? Or should I acknowledge that all men have a drive for sexual variety and I should be grateful his weak moments were with a computer rather then in real life?

Anonymous edited this post 11 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

My Boyfriend has had cyber “encounters” (skype, chat) throughout the duration of our relationship about 2-3 times / month. It has never taken away from out relationship (been prioritized). I discovered this and confronted him, and he claimed it is purely sexual which I believe is true. Should i consider this cheating and dump him right away? Or should I acknowledge that all men have a drive for sexual variety and I should be grateful his weak moments were with a computer rather then in real life?

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