friends help: I want to go out with my best friends crush but she will hate me what should I do?

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I want to go out with my best friends crush but she will hate me what should I do?

I really like this guy and I know he likes me too. The only problem is my best friend likes him and doesn’t know how much I like him. She is the type that if he texted me and not her she would be mad at me. We are having our semi formal (dance) next week and I want to dance with him and I don’t know what to do. If I do my best friend will hate me forever and if I don’t I will never be able to have a chance with him (not just the dance thing but dating because we like each other alot) please help!

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DarkSnow 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Friends are more important than crushes. *Immensely* more important.

Jynx 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I think you should go for it. If she is a true friend she will understand. Because if you never try, you’ll be wondering what could have been. And if she stops being your friend, then she was never a true friend in the first place.

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courtneyrockstar20 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

I have to disagree with jynx. I think it really depends on who liked him first and sense you’ve never said anything I don’t think you should risk your friendship. You do this and you will lose your friend. u might be lucky enough to be able to fix things with her sometime in the future but it will never be the same again. Is it worth losing your friend over? I can tell you right now it’s not. Friends, especially best friends are extremely hard to come by. If you care about her then why try to hurt her? Sometimes you have to make hard choices in life. You have to take a step back and look at what’s really important. It’s your choice but just take in account what i’ve said. Is it really worth losing your best friend over?

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Talhk 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Friends are more important.. don’t lose your friend over a random crush. It’s not worth it, you will find too many guys to get crush on to so i think you should let go of him and support your friend and be there for her :) i’m so sure you will find other guys. I know it might be so hard for you to deal with it but yet again it’s your decision.. choose wisely :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (10 months after post)

I am in the same situation. My bestfriend (georgia) Goes out with my EX (charlie) I have a crush on him. He wasnt very faithful to my bestfriend because he said he loved me but when i asked him to put georgia out of her misery of not knowing that he loves me he then said “No, i am too scared!” Soo…

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