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Hello, please help me have a happier life!

Any suggestions will do :)

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King T 1 #
Fenton, MI, US | 12 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Prayer, find a local church that you agree with and seek prayer. With Christ everything is possible.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (8 minutes after post)

If you’re socially awkward, try just observing (surreptitiously) people when they interact with each other in order to figure out the ‘rules’. Also this: http://help.com/post/423192-do-you-wa…

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erty edited this post 12 months ago. Read the previous text »

I kind of feel like I’m not supposed to be alive.
I have a lot wrong with me, mentally and physically so life’s been a hell of a struggle. Recently I realised that everything that’s wrong with me were probably all caused by the medical complications when I was born. I could have died but I didn’t.
Now I know that I can’t help myself wondering should I have? I am just so at odds with the world. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to function like a ‘’normal'’ person. My whole life has been one big struggle.
I mean I don’t want to kill myself particularly… not right now anyway. I’d much rather my life just got better. But I just don’t know how to fix it. Cause it seems to be me that’s wrong, I can’t go around blaming society or the world when so many other people are happy in it. All I want to do with my life is help people but I’m so socially awkward I don’t know why anyone would ever want my help. So maybe I need to just let that dream go and go work in IT or something. Maybe I just need to stop expecting to be happy and for things to change and get better and lower my standards cause some people just don’t have what it takes to be who they want to be.

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MarlinTheFish 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (58 minutes after post)

I’m not telling you that your feelings are wrong, but do you see how they are contradictory?

many people’s lives are saved or prolonged through medical intervention. Does that mean that they also should not be alive? it is true that we are all living on borrowed time.

how do you know that you’re not supposed to be alive? this implies that you know better than reality what should and shouldn’t be.

Help me with: The Right to Believe

hrhurwuhuwh edited this post 12 months ago. Read the previous text »

I kind of feel like I’m not supposed to be alive.
I have a lot wrong with me, mentally and physically so life’s been a hell of a struggle. Recently I realised that everything that’s wrong with me were probably all caused by the medical complications when I was born. I could have died but I didn’t.
Now I know that I can’t help myself wondering should I have? I am just so at odds with the world. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to function like a ‘’normal’’ person. My whole life has been one big struggle.
I mean I don’t want to kill myself particularly… not right now anyway. I’d much rather my life just got better. But I just don’t know how to fix it. Cause it seems to be me that’s wrong, I can’t go around blaming society or the world when so many other people are happy in it. All I want to do with my life is help people but I’m so socially awkward I don’t know why anyone would ever want my help. So maybe I need to just let that dream go and go work in IT or something. Maybe I just need to stop expecting to be happy and for things to change and get better and lower my standards cause some people just don’t have what it takes to be who they want to be.

MarlinTheFish 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

oh master hacker, please teach me the ways

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mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

My dear crystalsandsand, what happened to you? Your words seem nonsensical, like random combinations that don’t really mean much of anything.

I’d like to suggest an alternative, such as, “Hello! Please help me have a happy life, thanks.”

Help me with: Socialness

crystalsandsand edited this post 12 months ago. Read the previous text »

I kind of feel like I’m not supposed to be alive.
I have a lot wrong with me, mentally and physically so life’s been a hell of a struggle. Recently I realised that everything that’s wrong with me were probably all caused by the medical complications when I was born. I could have died but I didn’t.
Now I know that I can’t help myself wondering should I have? I am just so at odds with the world. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to function like a ‘’normal’’ person. My whole life has been one big struggle.
I mean I don’t want to kill myself particularly… not right now anyway. I’d much rather my life just got better. But I just don’t know how to fix it. Cause it seems to be me that’s wrong, I can’t go around blaming society or the world when so many other people are happy in it. All I want to do with my life is help people but I’m so socially awkward I don’t know why anyone would ever want my help. So maybe I need to just let that dream go and go work in IT or something. Maybe I just need to stop expecting to be happy and for things to change and get better and lower my standards cause some people just don’t have what it takes to be who they want to be.

Help me with: I’m not wanting pity but if people have tips to escape the suicidal state of mind that would be wonderful.

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crystalsandsand 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

mindhealer wrote:
My dear crystalsandsand, what happened to you? Your words seem nonsensical, like random combinations that don’t really mean much of anything.

I’d like to suggest an alternative, such as, “Hello! Please help me have a happy life, thanks.”

Thanks for snapping me out of that.

Help me with: I’m not wanting pity but if people have tips to escape the suicidal state of mind that would be wonderful.

hggf edited this post 12 months ago. Read the previous text »

Hello, please help me have a happier life!
Any suggestions will do :)

carrie28williams 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

First, find what is making you unhappy. Take some time and think what makes me feel this way. After, that realize your limitations in life as a human. Then realize that you have the ability to change this. Life is what you make it either you make it miserable by not living or you realize happiness is a state of mind. Hope this helps.

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southern_comfort edited this post 12 months ago. Read the previous text »

Hello, please help me have a happier life!
Any suggestions will do :)

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Hello, please help me have a happier life!
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mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 21 minutes after post)

crystalsandsand wrote:

mindhealer wrote:
My dear crystalsandsand, what happened to you? Your words seem nonsensical, like random combinations that don’t really mean much of anything.

I’d like to suggest an alternative, such as, “Hello! Please help me have a happy life, thanks.”

Thanks for snapping me out of that.

You’re welcome. :) Here’s a random answer from healing crystals to any other completely random question you might have: http://www.healingcrystals.com/card_p…

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TrickyDo edited this post 12 months ago. Read the previous text »

Hello, please help me have a happier life!
Any suggestions will do :)

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crystalsandsand 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Interesting crystal. Hematite used to me one of my favourite stones.
And I have been thinking a lot about my lack of spirituality lately, though not actually doing something about it at the same time.

Help me with: I’m not wanting pity but if people have tips to escape the suicidal state of mind that would be wonderful.

mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 23 minutes after post)

I’ll click through there until I get to Hematite and see what it says to me.

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mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Ah, I know that rock. It’s really shiny.

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mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 29 minutes after post)

I think the message is saying, “be more physical, go run around the forest for a couple hours.”

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crystalsandsand 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Haha that sounds like a pretty fun thing to do and I am very caught up in my head so I can imagine it would help quite a lot.
I don’t know where all that earlier post came from really…
It seems so weird now I let myself get to that state.
When you said ‘what happened to you?’ It made me kind of sad because I guess I saw the change too.. and then I didn’t want to be acting like that anymore.

Help me with: I’m not wanting pity but if people have tips to escape the suicidal state of mind that would be wonderful.

mindhealer 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (11 hours, 2 minutes after post)

crystalsandsand wrote:
When you said ‘what happened to you?’ It made me kind of sad because I guess I saw the change too.. and then I didn’t want to be acting like that anymore.

Well, I’m sorry that I made you sad. At least it was done in the spirit of purely kind helpfulness to make you happy. :)

Help me with: Socialness

crystalsandsand 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Nah dont be, I’m glad you said it. Anyway, I hope you’re well and thanks everyone for the suggestions!

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