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So ive been dating the sweetest guy ever…

A couple of weekd ago he asked if i had ever slept with a black guy. I yold him the truth and said yes and hrs not really racist but hr dosnt like it. The next day he broke up with me becaisr of that… I know some wil say stuff like find someone else vut i want the people that can help me try to get him back

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

If he broke up with you because of that, he is racist, and therefore not the sweetest guy ever. I guess the way to fix everything would be to educate him. If he wasn’t so ignorant or insecure in the first place, he wouldn’t have broken up with you, so I’d try to work on fixing those issues of his if you really want him back.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Do you really want to be with someone who is prejudiced that way??

Think about it, seriously… :\

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Lot of white guys think that a white girl that will do a black guy is trash.

hmm maybe they’re just jealous that you had lol :p

but honestly, if he leaves you for a reason like that, he did you a favor

~ Go Interracial Relationships! :D ~

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

Why does it matter? What if he was Asian? What if he was Indian? What if he was Hispanic? Why should him being “black” even be a factor in your NEW relationship? And why should that even be a question you ask someone? I don’t get it, I just don’t…

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brbb offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Thank yall who have helped.. Even the ones who have said your opinion. I am one of the least racist people you could find… I know that his beliefs aren’t what most people believe and the reason i wrote this is because i honestly truly like him alot

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Are you or your post real? You misspell everything. I hope your not trying to troll stuff around.
If it’s all real…then your boyfriend is obviously upset. Er, I mean ex boyfriend. If he can’t except what you did, then I guess it’s time to find someone who will.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

Yes my post is real. My phone has swype and i was going fast. Thanks though for all yalls advice it really did help me when i had no one else to talk to.

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