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My Story; Her Story.
I cheated on my boyfriend with a previous love and became pregnant. My math sucked and I committed to the wrong man. One marriage and birth later and my daughter is not his. He would like to stay and help me raise her and be her dad. However, I am not in love with him. Her biological father is not interested in being with me and I don’t wish to raise her alone. I have received only $200 dollars from her biodad in the 14 months of her life and am struggling financially and emotionally/mentally raising her. Should I stay with a man I don’t love in the hopes that through his actions of kindness and love I can grow to love him again as I did when I thought I was pregnant with his child? and what about having to have contact with the man I am still in love with and wish I was raising my daughter with? He displays misogynistic tendencies towards me and I am hoping to shed my feelings for him. Any advice? I really need help.
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