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hey guys.

soo its about my love life.
its going toooo bad
i mean, its going to 10 months in three days, and we’re fighting like anything.
the reason of these fights is…
that he’s too busy for me
i dont know but he’s too busy!
nothings like it use to be…
we use to meet everyday!
and text and call…
but now he doesnt even texts me
its sad…..
i want him back.
he’s too busy in his work or he’s with friends, or family.
i feel really sad.
and i cry almost everyday now.
please help

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 200 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

We have no power to change what anybody else does. Guess what? Neither do you. He’s moved on. My heartfelt prayer is that you do the same.

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tiar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

he’s moved on?
so i should like dump him?
guess what! he texted me right now…
” its my life, whatever i do, u cannot stop me”
dude, i loved him
i still do.
like a lot…..
c’mon it was about to be , 10 months in 3 days.

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beccafunn offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

You need to talk to him about it….talk it out. There’s the chance that he’s changed, and the chance that he hasn’t. Knowing him, you probably already know which it is.
But regardless, you need to talk to him about it. Find out what’s going through his mind. Maybe you two can make up, or maybe it’s time to get over him and start thinking of others.

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tiar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

yeah.
i think , i’m gonna call him in a while.
and see what he says.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 200 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

10 months. 10 years… Who cares?!? He said it best. “Its my life.” Are you that so conceited that you can’t comprehend what that means?

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tiar offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

okay so
the worst thing i could ever imagine, happened right now
i called him, and he was like babe i’ll ttyl, with friends, playing xbox
and i heard a girl, shouting …
some **** like baby come to me and ****
so he hungup
and i texted him i’m coming to ur place, right now!!
and he texted back.
listen dude , u cannot just come like that.. cant u get it?i’m busy with friends.
and i broke up :||
now he’s begging me to come back.
why are guys so confused in life?

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beccafunn offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Wow. You did the right thing, I think…He wasn’t treating you right!

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 200 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

If you need to see it with your own eyes and need the drama then go and see him. Perhaps then your eyes will be wide open.

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Siren offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

you sound clingy.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

You deserve a better one, sweetie!

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