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Sometimes you shouldnt think…

I just realized I havent got more than a ‘Happy Mothers Day!’ (In text mind you) in three years. Now my children are all young, but dad *ahem* I go out for you on father’s day.. I’ve bought my own birthday presents for four years now, so I would have something on my bday.. but you better believe Dad got birthday presents. Wow. Fml. I don’t mean anything to the one man I placed first in my life.

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I don’t mean anything to the one man I placed first in my life.

Is that really true or are you just saying it for affect? I mean, is your husband really into remembering holidays and thinking that they are really important in showing that you care about the people who are related to that holiday? Because, if not, him not celebrating a particular holiday has nothing to do with how he feels about you.

That’s my question, just to try to clarify what you’re saying here.

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

I gave him a family!

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Okay, but does celebrate holidays to appreciate people?

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

*he

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 40 minutes after post)

He always says Im gonna make this up to you. But years now. How can you make that up? He used to do stuff for my birthday, and mothers day.

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Maybe he doesn’t like holidays any more. That is completely different than not liking you. That’s just to restate what I already mentioned.

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 26 minutes after post)

I finally talked about it, and your right. He just doesnt put thought into holidays. He said that he does more for me than he has for anyone else. Guess I just blew up.

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