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Hey everyone, I really need a guy’s opinion in this…
.but of course everyone’s is welcome…
I think I made a huge mistake, but here is goes…
I was in a mentally abusive relationship for a few years. It was bad. He took away all of my friends and I was left with absolutely none except for one. I have known him since the day I was born, we grew up together at my grandma’s house. He has been away at college and is about to graduate.
Well after this horrible relationship with my ex, I joined Facebook to try to regain friends and get in touch with family members who live far away from me. I friended him and we very lightly messaged each other about his upcoming graduation. When the relationship ended with my ex, I realized how much I appreciated him being my friend, and how much I appreciated him being there for me and my family… So I decided to send him a message, which was kinda long, telling him how much I appreciated him being there and that there has been a distraction in my life preventing me from keeping contact with him but now the distraction is gone and im sorry. I asked him if he could forgive me and said we should hang out this summer when he comes home from graduation….
yeah…if you’re wondering… i do like him… a lot… but i wouldn’t tell him that i like him and am trying so hard to keep my feelings out of anything i write to him because i sincerely want to rebuild our friendship well he hasn’t responded in a few days and i know he has been on. . .do you think i freaked him out? is he planning not to respond at all? i can show you guys the complete message if you want but i dont know im so confused did i come off to strong??? Help :’(
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