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I don’t know how to proceed or what we are?

There was a flat party a few nights ago night and i started talking to this guy . He knew a couple of my friends Then all of us headed down to a night club and since i was a bit tipsy i would hold onto him and he would just take my arm and lock it with his and then after a while he took hold of my hand like his fingers were in between my fingers n he wold hold me and we walked like that the entire night. At the club he was still with me,we danced for a bit and he got me 2 drinks n wen i finshed mine he would pour his drink in mine aww haha

Then we sat down n we randomly talked n he kept rubbing my arm and then he leaned in and kissed me.
I was too shocked to move n after a while he kissed me again it was just like a peck lol .That was my first kiss but I didn’t tell him since I didn’t want to scare him off.He put his number onto my phone and gave himself a funny name :p He said that he will cook for me sometime.
After the night ended he walked with me home with my flatmates. The next day we texted each other and I asked him if he wanted to have dinner with me but said he couldn’t so after a while i said I’m going for a walk and he asked if I wanted to chill with him for a bit since we live close. So we went for a walk in the night and sat talking looking at the stars aha .He dropped me back home that night and said he would cook soon.

The day before we were just talking and he said that hes going shopping and asked if I wanted to join. So we went to get him stuffs for his holiday. He bought the ones I picked out for him ..it all looked good on him , bless him. But yeah so I kept asking him if he liked it :p He would try it on and show me.
We started getting hungry and asked if the day would be good if he tried to cook for me so i said yeah that would be nice.Then as we were coming out of the shopping complex he took hold of my hand
n i didn’t hold it that like i think he realized its uncomfortable so he let go and then we went to my place n he met my flatmates n had tea with them .After that we went n bougth the stuffs n went over to his flat
Well i cooked basically and he was always helping out and all that n then we had wine after our meal we were like lets watch a movie.

So we watched a movie in his room and he held me the entire time n ermm we were a bit tipsy then too
well i slept over at his place n we kissed …well he kissed me couple of times and he kept rubbing my sholders and hand. He always holds my hand and we kept talking to each other lying down.
He would just stare into my eyes or just look at me. We didn’t do anything other than share the same bed and he holding me the entire time eventhough it was freaking warm haha
And me in that tipsy state kept telling how i dont like being played and how hes banned from doing anything with any other girl when hes on holiday and he just kept saying ok. He said im not a player and I dont play around lol and he had this poster on his kitchen door which his flatmates had put up I didn’t like it so after a while he said if you want you can take it down i don’t mind. He said have a little faith and he just gave me a kiss. In the back of my head I often feel almost every guy don’t want anything serious.

He was supposed to meet me before he went but hes back home no and said he will deffo come down after and cook for me and do things ^^ He told me hes quite shy well he is aha but he cares.
He is off on a holiday for a week so I won’t be seeing him for a while now and after that by the end of this month I will be flying back home and then I won’t see him for the next 3 months i guess since we are having summer holidays. I don’t know how to proceed or what we are?

He has never been in a relationship and neither have I ! This is the first time things have gone this way and I have no clue as to if he likes me enough to go into a relationship or what hes thinking ?

Sorry I know its a bit too long but I thought I will mention it all :)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Thanks :)possibly a short term? haha made me feel a bit down :p

Thanks :)possibly a short term? haha made me feel a bit down :p

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

yeah your right :)

yeah your right :)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

woah , your awesome ! thank you very much :))

woah , your awesome ! thank you very much :))

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