reason help: How can I be less innocent and naive? - Help.com

sometimes people can not stop looking at what they do not have too see what they have do have, never stop being a good person, expect to meet nice people and you will find them.

Get into their minds

Experience.

Change your friends!

Just keep in mind that every person is fallible. There are some people who are nice but, for one reason or another, they at times act with cruelty.
If you don’t give a person your trust until they’ve earned it, it helps. And if you can talk to people when they hurt you it helps too. And if a person doesn’t care when they hear that they’ve hurt you, well, then you have an easy indication that this person is not worth trusting ^^

However, if you get betrayed enough you eventually stop trusting people. Which isn’t really a good thing. So it’s best to merely learn which people are trustworthy instead of not trusting anyone or trusting everyone (both of those aren’t a good idea).

Do things on your own, built expirences and confedience.

shop alone, eat, drive, plan… be safe, but be independant.

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cupcake7 wrote:
Do things on your own, built expirences and confedience.

shop alone, eat, drive, plan… be safe, but be independant.

isn’t that weird though? do people do that

I always do thing by my own

Nah, it’s not weird to do things alone and be independent. It’s often far better for people to have friends you can trust that are close to you, but it’s entirely possible to do most things alone ^^
I do both, depending on what mood I’m in. Sometimes I’m social, sometimes I spend time alone.