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I am 16 years old.I live with my dad.My mom and dad

divorced when I was 9 years old.That has taken a toll on me badly.My life has never been the same.My dad has remarried and so has she.I just feel unwanted by both my parents.My mom wants nothing to do with me since she got this man in her life.She disowns me a lot and only wants me around when it is convenient for her.My dad he rarely ever wanna do anything.But my so called ‘’Step mother'’,She was okay for awhile.Till recently she ignores me and treats me so badly.I get yelled at over the stupid stuff ever.I am tired of feeling like I dont matter to anyone.I just dont know what to do anymore..Someone please help /:!?

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I am 16 years old.I live with my dad.My mom and dad divorced when I was 9 years old.That has taken a toll on me badly.My life has never been the same.My dad has remarried and so has she.I just feel unwanted by both my parents.My mom wants nothing to do with me since she got this man in her life.She disowns me a lot and only wants me around when it is convenient for her.My dad he rarely ever wanna do anything.But my so called ‘’Step mother'’,She was okay for awhile.Till recently she ignores me and treats me so badly.I get yelled at over the stupid stuff ever.I am tired of feeling like I dont matter to anyone.I just dont know what to do anymore..Someone please help /:!?

Randomperson1312 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I’m 16 too. It’s tough being a teenager, but even tougher when things like this happen. My parents are still together… But only because they feel obliged to be.
You really do need to tell someone about this. Do you have any trusted friends or siblings? If telling them will help, that’s great. They’ll be able to give suggestions and just be there for you. If no one comes to mind, perhaps you could talk to your school’s social worker? They’re usually nice.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Yeah,I have friends and my boyfriend I can talk to..Which you are right it is tough being a teen

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Well… You could just stay with another family member for a while to get away from it all…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Geeez Sweetie this is tough! I was in the same boat 30 years ago! I’m 50 now but remember to well when I was 16 and going through the same thing. It really made me feel alone in life. I had friends and a boyfriend but even that ot still never filled the void of family being there and caring for me.

The best advice I can give you is be strong and as young as you are relize now that you are the only one who is really there for you and understands truly what you are feeling. No one else well! Get to understand your emotions and how things around you make you feel. Soon enough you will be an adult and on your own. Chin up and take care of your self because no one else will! Lots of love and be strong!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 54 minutes after post)

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