Love help: My girlfriend has cheated on me.

rlnsible

My girlfriend has cheated on me.

We are currently on a break and haven’t seen eachother for over a week. I am so lovesick. Angry and just overall depressed. We have or were together for 4 years. I am freaked out because when she told me I was filled with anger. Which quickly filled with sorrow for her. I can’t figure it out I feel so sad for her. But I want to be mad. I don’t know if I should try and get over her while we are on break or should I try to work it out. I love her and she says she loves me but she is lost and dosent understand who she is. I just feel like a victim that has no resource to help me through this. I am sorry if this is all over the place I am just throwing eveverything out at once.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

I would recommend just ending things peacefully while you still can talk to each other without things erupting into an argument.

If you meet again months or years down the road feeling like you would be willing to try again, then you can do so. But for now, it feels to me as if the both of you just need some time apart to process things.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I would recommend just ending things peacefully while you still can talk to each other without things erupting into an argument.

If you meet again months or years down the road feeling like you would be willing to try again, then you can do so. But for now, it feels to me as if the both of you just need some time apart to process things.

Agreed. This seems to me like the best thing to do.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I would personally move on. Don’t think it over - move on.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Sounds like your relationship is at a different place than where it used to be. You two probably need space apart to recognize the relationship for what it is now, and to learn about yourselves separate instead of together. You need to understand yourself at least a little before you can have a successful relationship with someone else, and if you have changed, or become more angry about some things in the relationship, taking a step back to figure out what youre feeling and why youre feeling that way is a good thing

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

there’s nothing like cheating in true love, love all the things of your gf though she cheats u, love her cheating and continuously show love to her, that true love, and if your love is true she will definitely come to you, but never try to oppose her, leaving her is better than opposing her, and loving her in every situation is the best u can give your gf.

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