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I feel like Im this dog waiting for my owner to throw me a bone.

I recently met this guy at a wedding, and let me tell you at first I didn’t notice him at all, but I noticed his brother.

— wedding finishes, life moves on—
He adds me on facebook, I accept and all.
Then I was the first to talk to him, I was fine with that (to be honest, I was bored so I just decided to talk to who ever was online)
Turns out he is the EXACT same person as me but in a guy version. Loves the things I love, talks the way I talk, hates the things I hate. We basically hit it off pretty good. He asked for my number and I was cool with that and we would start texting. Heres the thing:
If he “feels” like talking to me, thats when we’ll talk.
If he is in the “mood” to text me, he’ll text me.

But what about me? I text, I want to talk. He wont even reply…

I feel like that if he’s “bothered” he’ll put in effort, but who cares about the girl who’s sitting there by her phone waiting for a message or for him to care about her?

GRRRR!

- p.s sorry about the rant…

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andreasgursk offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Have you tried not texting him or messaging him for awhile to see what happens? Perhaps to see how long it would take for him to reply? It hurts and I know what your going through. But don’t make effort with someone who doesn’t make the mutual effort, they wont be worth it.

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