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I just need to get this out

He is being a jerk to me. He was so sweet, then after he broke up with me monday, he completely changed. I don’t know why. I can’t imagine he was just putting up an act that whole time, in fact I know that was him. But he is not the mature person I thought he was. All I did was ask if he meant it when he said he might want to come back over email, and he sent me the most cruel reply. “people are saying you’re spreading crap about me” “I’ll have moved on by the time you changed anyway” “I have 4 others interested in me right now.” I have not been spreading crap, I’ve been telling anyone who will listen what happened and the things he has said to me. I cannot believe he ever cared for me after what he said (that wasn’t even half of it). I am doing this because that is how I deal with hurtful situations, I let it all out. If he actually ever cared for me, he wouldn’t have said those things and wouldn’t already be looking at other people.

Sorry if that didn’t make sense, I feel so much better after getting my feelings out where someone might read them. So replies or not, thank you help.com.

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weird0n offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

GIRL! Screw him.
Hes messing with you and wants to feel the chase. he wants you to break your neck for him because he needs to spice things up because hes probably not that mature in reality. I say drop him til he smartens up.

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brokengirl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

That’s what I’m doing :) It just hurts. And he’s listening to all the gossip =P

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weird0n offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

It does hurt, but you trying to make him realize, is hurting yourself, because if you put yourself out there, over and over for someone and they just dissapoint and hurt you, stop going back, because that person isnt taking you seriously, I mean this so much. If he had any sense or cared, hed apologize to you and only have intentions towards you, instead of telling you he has others wanting to get in his pants.

If he does that, he wants your reaction.

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BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 56 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Throw him back.. plenty of other fish in the ocean.

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11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

I like ur ID and i like the way u said, reply or not I am ok…Good Job :)

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