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My best Friend is mad at me because I’m hanging out/talking to another girl who she doesn’t like.

My best friend keeps telling me how annoying the girl is, where in fact, I agree, but I don’t mind having the girl around. The girl is nice and respects us. Though, my best friend keeps giving off signs to tell the girl to keep away from us and leave. Somehow, the girl doesn’t get the message and now my best friend is mad. She’s mad at me too because I continue to hang out with the girl. I don’t know what to do and I really want to get back to my best friend. Please help! (and the girl is the kind of girl where nobody likes and honestly, a loner…)

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

You don’t need only one friend who tries to run off all the other people. Become friends with as many people as you can and dump your bff…….

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waka_laka_22 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

I went through this before actually. I think you should maybe distance yourself from this girl, and keep your friend. Let this girl know that you don’t mind having her around, and she can be your friend, but you need some space. Don’t say this directly to her, but distance yourself over time.

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eliz4 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

Thank you fort he advice! I will try this!

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