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What should I do?

My ex and I are slowly trying to work things out..slowly as in he’s very temperamental and needs space, but tells me that he wants to work things out and we’ve been talking more and more. Last night, I had a mini freak out about things and bombarded him with texts and phone calls. I’m wondering what I should do to remedy this situation?? It’s the next morning and I don’t know if I should text him an apology or wait to call him later..any thoughts?

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Maybe text: sorry for the mini freakout. It’s finished now. Then don’t contact him for a couple days until he figures out what he wants.

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southern_comfort online Verified User (7 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Asked and answered hannah. Do not make duplicate posts please.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Obviously you were frustrated and just let it all out last night! We tend to do this at the moment we almost feel no control to stop….been there done that as well! In the past when I had done what you did the best way to redem myself that worked was I STOPPED TEXTING PERIOD! So stop and do not text him at all today! When he calls or text you do not bring up any more of what you said in your text. If he brings it up just say the truth! I was frustrated and needed to say what I said and thats it!

Good Luck! The next time you feel like doing that DON’T…..get your mind on something else and try to let your frustrations go with out texting them.

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hannah offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 36 minutes after post)

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
Asked and answered hannah. Do not make duplicate posts please.

No, this is a separate case! Last night I was feeling really upset and texted and called him a million times and now i feel like i’m back at square 1.. :/

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hannah offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 hours, 11 minutes after post)

i’m just feeling even worse than before now. i can’t stand it

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