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Confusing Scorpio girl
This girl I am pursuing right now seems very hard to read. Or maybe, I am stupid. Either way, here is how it is:
I met her at a convention. Just a passing encounter and a minute-long conversation. Then she found me on Facebook (not something significant, given how people add everyone on Facebook) and added me. I messaged her with a thank you and we started chatting. It was an intelligent conversation (I don’t get those often) and I asked her if she was free to go to the book fair that weekend. She said she wasn’t. But she gave me her phone number and asked me to text her.
We started texting and it went on for a full-day. Back-and-forth, back-and-forth. It was quite nice and we asked each other about likes dislikes etc and found we had a lot in common. Then it stopped and we were out of touch for some time. I found her online some time later and asked her out again. She said she was busy and apologised for being busy (gave elaborate reasons etc). After that, I asked her out again once and she said yes. But the day of the date, she cancelled out as a sudden job interview had come in.
After the interview she said no to my asking out three more times. I later learned that if the job worked out, she would be moving out of the country for 2 whole years. I am guessing she didn’t want to start something at that point because she may not be around to do justice to it.
But the job thing didn’t work out and she found me online again. She dropped a hint about how she was free. I took it and asked her out again. She said yes. We met, and it was wonderful, though she appeared partially casual. We had lunch and watched a movie, during which she kept physical contact on and off. When she was saying bye, she told me to call her when I got home.
I got home and had a headache, so I texted her. She didn’t reply. She replied later in the night saying that she also had a headache and had gone off to sleep as soon as she reached home. We texted on and off and still do.
Here is my problem:
She never initiates conversations. I sometimes feel like I am imposing myself on her. Sometimes, it would be nice to have her text me or start a conversation. Or am I making this too big a deal?
From the sun sign PoV, I read that Scorpio girls are a bit hard-to-understand anyway, and that they don’t initiate contact and prefer to be pursued.
I am a bit stumped here, so any words of guidance will be most welcome.
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