boyfriend help: Help! - Help.com



This post left anonymously

Help!

! Should I contact him!

I ran into a guy I recently dated the other night. We had an intense romance that got a little crazy. I was not in a place to be in a relationship and was not myself. It was something where we both didn’t know to make of the situation …. so it seems. It ended but not badly.

We had not spoken in two months, and we ran into each other at dinner the night. He was at a big business dinner with about 15 other men, and I was at dinner with a few girlfriends. When he came over to our table, I was talking to male friend of mine and few feet away from the table that I had run into. My friend had come from a party and had a few drinks and was def. being very flirtatious with me. My friend pointed out to him that I was there. He returned to our table a few moments later and brought a bottle of champagne for us. He did not look at me in the face once and barely acknowledged me. Rather, he spoke to my friend sitting right next to me.

He left after his business dinner and returned to the restaurant an hour later - alone. He went up to my friends at the bar and offered to buy them drinks, and my friend pointed out that I was sitting in the lounge (I was with my male friend) and that they were leaving soon and declined the drinks. He then left. The one friend of mine he spoke to is the one that set us up (her long term boyfriend is a friend of his, but she and he have only met 3 times - once when we were dating).

I know this sounds silly, but my question is this. Is he still interested? Why did he come back? Why bring the champagne (specifically my favorite champagne that I ordered on every date). I also noticed recently that he had been looking at my linkedin profile. I could be reading into all of this but clearly I still have feelings.

Any suggestions or am I being crazy? I want to reach out and say thank you - open the door. However, I’m stuck b/c I believe that if he was truly interested he would have contacted me. I’m scared to extend the olive branch since I still clearly have feelings and don’t want rejection.

Help!!!!!

This closed post was written 11 months, 2 weeks ago | V/U/S: 340, 2, 1 | Edit Post | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (14)

relationship, girlfriends, Restaurant, one friend, Situation, Champagne, boyfriend, business, question, feelings, ex, Help, ex boyfriend, dating (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (2)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

Anonymous edited this post 11 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Is he interested?

I ran into a guy I recently dated the other night. We had an intense romance that got a little crazy. I was not in a place to be in a relationship and was not myself. It was something where we both didn’t know to make of the situation …. so it seems. It ended but not badly.

We had not spoken in two months, and we ran into each other at dinner the night. He was at business dinner with about 15 other men, and I was at dinner with a few girlfriends. When he came over to our table, I was talking to male friend of mine I had run into. My friend pointed out to him that I was there. He returned to our table a few moments later and brought a bottle of champagne for us. He did not look at me in the face once and barely acknowledged me.

He left after his business dinner and returned to the restaurant an hour later - alone. He went up to my friends at the bar and offered to buy them drinks, and my friend pointed out that I was sitting in the lounge (I was with my male friend) and that they were leaving soon and declined the drinks. He then left. The one friend of mine he spoke to is the one that set us up (her long term boyfriend is a friend of his), but they have only met twice.

I know this sounds silly, but my question is this. Is he still interested? Why did he come back? Why bring the champagne (specifically my favorite champagne that I ordered on every date). I also noticed recently that he had been looking at my linkedin profile. I could be reading into all of this but clearly I still have feelings.

Any suggestions or am I being crazy?

Anonymous closed this post.

This post has been closed, no more replies. Thanks!

Invite Others to Help

Seeing as this post is closed, no invites are allowed.