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Why won’t she talk to me?
I’ve been with my girlfriend for about six months and we where friends for like three years before that. Lately she’s been having a lot of trouble with her mum, they lived in a flat together but they where really poor and they could only stay there for six months before they had to move.Her mum moved in with her boyfriend but my girlfriend refused to move in with them because she knew her mum has a habit of having really short tricky relationships so instead she moved in with her auntie and uncle(we’re 18).
That was like beginning of April anyway about three weeks her mum had an argument with her boyfriend and he chucked her out and her mum moved in with a friend or something. My girlfriend and her Mum have a really bad relationship because of all the rubbish boyfriends her mum has had and there was other stuff going on. Since April they’ve only met up twice and talked on the phone a few times, but the second time they met up her mum said that she felt like my girlfriend was shutting her out of her life and said that she didn’t see the point in keeping up their relationship, my girlfriend was really angry with her and agreed.
And she’s been angry about it ever since and I’ve tried to get her to talk about but she won’t she just keeps saying she’s angry and she can’t be bothered with her mum any more. I knew from my experience with my dad that she wasn’t angry at all she was just upset but she just wouldn’t talk about it with me at all. Then tonight she went round her best friends they talked about it she cried and now she feels much better. Is it really bad that I’m kinda sad she didn’t want to talk about it with me? she actually text me saying “I’m really sorry for what I did, I shouldn’t have been moaning at you and I don’t have the right to get upset when you are so amazing.” All I’m thinking is what? what? why I want you to be able to talk to me and be upset I don’t want you too apologise for talking to me. I feel like I shouldn’t be upset that she didn’t talk to me when she feels better now, but I do feel upset and I don’t know why she won’t talk to me. :/
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