Feeling help: Why do I get this awful feeling every time my kid goes to my - Help.com

It’s okay to be worried about your child, but it’s your Mom, you probably need to tell her about this and maybe she’ll understand and answer her phone.

Erm, that does sound a little suspicious.

So don’t let him go with your mom if you have problems with her.

why can’t she come over for a visit like normal ppl? i mean, do you have to send your child off somewhere for days at a time?

Just don’t let her do it. He’s your baby and you know best. Hell with mom or anyone else.

How old is your son? If he’s old enough to know he doesn’t want to go to Grandma’s, then he knows something is wrong. Please do NOT force him to go with her. :(

President, I don’t want to step out of line here, but if your son objects to visiting his grandmother every time, there might be something going on that needs to be investigated. I am only a stranger to you, but I have had experience with this kind of thing. I wish I had listened more closely to my child when she said she didn’t want to go to her dad’s on the weekends. Children are afraid to fully disclose some things to adults a lot of the time, for fear of reprisal. Normally I’m not an alarmist, but please make sure your boy is safe.

Hugs.

Granny bought him a pool but now she takes him out of state. She can’t afford to feed him but she can afford the gas to be on the road with him. She lets him go off alone with your druggie uncle who could be into who knows what. I don’t even want to think that he could be turning your kid on to drugs or worse. There are druggies who peddle kids to pervs for drug money. He steals your grandmother’s meds and stole your stuff - do you know where he draws the line with what he will do?

I agree with AzKat. If he doesn’t want to go, there is a reason. Kids don’t usually feel comfortable with spilling the details of what’s going on. Lots of times they’re told that something bad will happen if they tell.

Your gut is telling you something is wrong - I hope you listen and stop the visits. See how long it takes before he asks to go for a visit. It might never happen. Please keep him safe. He’s the only child you have.

If he doesn’t want to go, perhaps there is a reason to be suspicious. I think your fears are natural and you need to sit down and have a talk with your mum.