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:,( how do i make myself happy on my own.

Im done letting ppl hurt me i am threw with men. But im so lonely i need to get ovr the idea of a fairytale its just not meant to b fr me. But how, how do u stop ur biggest sream. Im so hurting right now,i dnt know what im supposed to do :,( rant ove

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Savanna_ offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

There are so many in the world, you are bound to find your match if you keep looking!

When I feel sad I sing this, though it usually makes me laugh and cry
“I wish I was a glow worm.
A glow worm’s never glum.
‘Cos how can you be grumpy
When the sun shines out of your bum!”

It is sad, I know..

I think that if you need to scream, then scream…
Don’t keep it bottled inside.
Eventually you will scream so much it will become tiring
Then you can try to do something.

This may be bad advice, sorry, just trying to help.

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Help me with: Dreaming
fiona1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I can relate, but to get by I like to turn to music. I find that it heals me and brings me back, ready to fight against everything.

Also, drawing helps. Last week I was so depressed to the point of collapsing on my floor and sobbing. But instead I drew a picture of people crying rainbows with no feet…or bacon!!! It made me laugh and calmed me down.

Do you have a close friend that you can talk to about this? I wouldn’t be able to do it without my best friends.

I don’t want to sound like a stalker, but if you need someone to talk to about problems or just….anything you can email me at (no spaces) samara black 13 @ yahoo . com (If I didn’t put spaces they would have hidden it.)

Some music you should check out:
Feel Good Inc - The Gorillaz
The Reason - Hoobastank
Somewhere Only We Know- Keane
The Suburbs - Arcade Fire (I’ve had that stuck in my head all freggin day)
Love For A Child - Jason Mraz
And such.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

Imagination

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Help me with: I who are not of this planet..
justthewayyouare2 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Okay, wake up everymorning, and think of something positive about yourself, it can be as little is oh my smile is pretty today. Go out and do something that you think you might like or wanted to. Like shop, or a sport, even workout. Its always peacefully when going by yourself. And try to keep a smile throughout the day. And think no negative thoughts.

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Help me with: Good or bad?
Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 44 minutes after post)

“How to Find Happiness: 7 Timeless Tips from the Last 2500 Years”:
http://www.positivityblog.com/index.p…

“How to Become Happy Again”:
· http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Beco…
· http://www.wikihow.com/Become-Happy-A…
· http://www.ehow.com/how_5300997_happy…

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iloveu2 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

You know, you just have to accept the things who they are, for me it’s really hard and i’m 16 so i’m going through many things, and my parents are really busy and my relationship with my friends is superficial, and i don’t want to talk to a therapist, so i google ‘how to feel better’ or something related to that and i get many articles that are really helpful. Also, i go to the gym, sleep, watch movies, hang out with my friends so i can feel good and that’s what it makes me happy, just try to do things that’ll make u happy, u know what i mean?. We can’t do much, but time will tell when we’re going to have the ‘time of our lives’, we’ll just have to be strong, and the bad things that happen to us in our lives are the things that’ll make us stronger u know..so someday you’ll see that you won’t need to ask how to make yourself happy, but right now, you’re just going to keep your head up..
Good luck :D

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