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kokamiX

i have a really dumb question,but i worry too much.

so here goes: my best guy friend saw me in a bathingsuit for the first time today,i have been friends with him since we were little, and it wasn’t racy or anything,it was a one piece cover up kinda thing,but he’s never seen uh,that much of me before. he was standing outside the door when i stepped out in my bathingsuit,and the minute he saw me he said “uh um..” like he was nervous or something, then he looked down at his feet and i think his face turned kinda red? i know boys my age think “things” sometimes,but i’ve known him for years and as far as i know he doesnt see me that way. did it surprise him,or what? im just confused!

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I his face turned red he probably was getting an erection.
And that is embarasing for him.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

If his face turned red he probably was getting an erection.
And that is embarasing for him.

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verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

I think it was the result of surprise, not erection.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

spiratec9 wrote:
If his face turned red he probably was getting an erection.
And that is embarasing for him.

Don’t put too much into it though.Guys especially younger guys get erections
at the least trigger.Its normal.

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kokamiX 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

well like i said,im not sure if his face turned red,but he looked instantly at his feet.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

kokamiX wrote:
well like i said,im not sure if his face turned red,but he looked instantly at his feet.

Yes that is to try to control his thoughts so he doesn’t get one.
When I was in high school the girls all wore nylons and very short skirts.
And believe me it was hard to keep ones eyes and thoughts off certain things.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Half the time when a hot chick is talking too you its very hard for us guys
and when it happens(erection) we are deathly afraid someone is going to notice and especially the hot chick.Yikes.

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kokamiX 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

idk if his mom noticed but she was in the kitchen and i think she laughed,but, um,im not exactly sure. it happened pretty fast,and i walked away because i was embarrassed too.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

kokamiX wrote:
idk if his mom noticed but she was in the kitchen and i think she laughed,but, um,im not exactly sure. it happened pretty fast,and i walked away because i was embarrassed too.

well I think its proof he thinks your a hot chick.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

You said that he never thought of you that way before.
Well he does now.

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kokamiX 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

idk if that is a good or bad thing…i just hope it doesn’t mess up or change too much between us.

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spiratec9 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

kokamiX wrote:
idk if that is a good or bad thing…i just hope it doesn’t mess up or change too much between us.

well that would be up to you and him.
Don’t read a lot into it.
But realize that he probably did see something in you he had never considered
before.It fine.You can’t change that you are naturally attractive.
That’s good.

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kokamiX 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

phew! ok.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (21 hours, 24 minutes after post)

watch dawsons creek, you’ll understand it all

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (23 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I think he saw you and felt a different way about you for the first time and it embarrassed him. It happens as you mature.

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