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How do you tell your dad about your moms gambling problem when you know if you tell him he will divorce her?
So im almost 18 and my mom has had a gambling problem since i was like 4 and she remarried my step dad almost 8 years ago and since then she hasnt had to work a day in her life, instead she sits on the computer almost 24 hours a day gambling. she had another baby a 3 yrs ago and has it in her head that the child is my responsibility 24/7 so that she has time to gamble some more anyway she gets me to go to town and pick her up these prepaid visa gift card about 10 of them at $100 a piece every time and then i go and get 50 ones too or w.e anyway she has spent at the least about $60, 000 of my step dads money and he doesnt know that she gambles and so i tell my mom that if she keeps doing it i will tell bob and she flips out and freaks on me and hits me and says that if i do he will divorce her. But im really getting tired of this and every body ive told says i need to tell bob he has a right to know. i mean when they first got married we wre doing really well money wise i mean we bought farm machinery which is upwards to $300,000 and we paid cash now bob couldnt even afford to buy my mom a new car this year so idk what to do if i should tell bob or now and if i do how do i tell him especially when he is hardly ever in the house except meal time and then my mom would be there too so ya idk what to do, pleas help. :S
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