girl help: So I have question you hear all the time about these young rich - Help.com

Go on Million Dollar Matchmaker. They are not scarce, they are just not at your local wal-mart looking for moochers. I saw one girl on that show who was ready to date a plumber because he was cute. He wasn’t even into her, he just liked that she had money. They didn’t work out maybe you can try to get a date with her.

1&Only wrote:
lol ok sarcasm does not help. and trust me I am not looking at wal-mart that place is gross. but maybe i should apply for that show. So I guess that applying for a reality TV show is the idea to beat. any other ideas :)

And its not like i dont have money I just dont want to date poor people

Sorry. You will probably be able to get on the show if you have money yourself. They want guys who are well rounded and they are always looking for men of all ages. I think they are located in Beverly Hills so good luck. Hope you find a chick that meets your standards.

lol

Wealthy women usually only marry men who are richer than themselves. And if they have a choice of two men of equal wealth, they will choose the one who has been wealthiest the longest.

A wealthy man does not spend his time looking for women. He spends it socializing it with other men who can help him improve his wealth. And while he’s doing that, he meets their female relatives, friends, and other business contacts.

So…in short, if you want to meet a wealthy woman, you must spend time in the company of wealthy men.

the reason is this. Women usually want love, they are usually less interested in how attractive someone is. So, although you may easily see a wealthy woman with someone who earns less money, I doubt that they would just date someone for their looks but for the person they are.

Wouldn’t it be easier and better to work on your skills and be wealthy in your own right and meet someone who you love and are attracted to, rather than fulfilling a ’service’? Or is that old fashioned now? :/

1&Only wrote:
See the thing is that i am wealthy as well I am just tired for meeting all of the fake girls that just want my money or body, im just looking for someone who just want me. So i thought that eliminating the money issue would help my chances.

Don’t let them know you have money. Problem solved.

1&Only wrote:

Crumpet♡Strumpet wrote:
the reason is this. Women usually want love, they are usually less interested in how attractive someone is. So, although you may easily see a wealthy woman with someone who earns less money, I doubt that they would just date someone for their looks but for the person they are.

Wouldn’t it be easier and better to work on your skills and be wealthy in your own right and meet someone who you love and are attracted to, rather than fulfilling a ’service’? Or is that old fashioned now? :/

I wish that i could find a woman who I loved and who loved me back. but as of yet that has not happened not even close

It’s usually quite easy to spot someone who is just after your money… I was a student when I started dating my wealth partner, I never let him pay for me, we went halves or we stayed in, its only now that I let him, after 5 years because I’m earning too and can treat him back. If she’s quick to let you open your wallet be wary. But also, how are you meeting these girls? At bars where your flashing the cash and buying drinks?
Maybe approach a girl in a neutral environment, and then you know there is no reason that she agreed to date you other than liking you.

1&Only wrote:

Crumpet♡Strumpet wrote:
the reason is this. Women usually want love, they are usually less interested in how attractive someone is. So, although you may easily see a wealthy woman with someone who earns less money, I doubt that they would just date someone for their looks but for the person they are.

Wouldn’t it be easier and better to work on your skills and be wealthy in your own right and meet someone who you love and are attracted to, rather than fulfilling a ’service’? Or is that old fashioned now? :/

I wish that i could find a woman who I loved and who loved me back. but as of yet that has not happened not even close

Give it time.

But…also, a lot of poorer women aren’t real comfortable with wealth, and men who seem too wealthy.

When she’s living in a rental and trying to keep food on the table, dating a guy who lives in a mansion, drives a luxury car and spends more in a day than she makes in a week can make her very uncomfortable.

Every woman needs to feel like she has a genuine connection. And being of different financial classes can prevent that connection from ever occuring.

Maybe…try meeting people in places where money is not obvious. Church? A club for people of similiar interests -gardening, photography, chess? Maybe to get to know people on the internet where they can’t see where you live or the subject of money won’t come up at all. Then offer to meet in a group or a busy social function?