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I have, but with everything, there are stories of problems.
Now all that has been brought to light, they’ll of changed the implant content.
It’s silicone rather than saline im interested in i think.

melissa_vanwey wrote:
With any procedure, medical or otherwise, there are risks involved. Breast augmentations are incredibly painful and recovery time is absolutely necessary… Working might not be an option for you, depending upon what you do. Although doctors are not certain the likelihood of it, breast implants might interfere with your ability to breast feed if you choose to do so, and furthermore, they could interfere with mammograms, which are crucial to catching breast cancer at it’s early stages. There are benefits to breast augmentations, but in order to enjoy them one must carefully seek out a responsible and reputable surgeon. Breast augmentations are not cheap (anywhere from $3000-$9000), which is why many women are tempted to travel to other countries for surgery. PLEASE don’t be one of those women! While I’m sure there are verified surgeons all over the world, the risk is simply too great; plus, the quality of medical technology and/or medical training might not be up to standards. In addition to the quality of service, the medical negligence laws vary from country to country. A doctor here who botches a surgery and disfigures a person may find himself without a license, business, and possibly even behind bars; in other countries, however, a doctor who damages a patient might only face a few fines and a suspension before he/she is back out there, doing the same thing to other people.

When it’s all said and done, I urge you to consider the consequences (good and bad) of having such an invasive surgery. If you decide to go ahead with it, I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you will put your health first and foremost and find a doctor who will take care of you. There are abundant resources for you to educate yourself and make an informed decision. Try visiting breastaugmentation.com to start out; maybe you’ll find the answer to some of your questions there! Good luck!

Thanks everyone for your replys.

I can’t have kids so the breast feeding part really doesn’t matter to me.
I like to think i have a pretty high pain threshold.
It was just a brief idea to go to another country to get one, i really don’t think i would actually do that, it is a bit too much of a risk to take.
I have wanted this procedure for at least 10 years, but there have always been other financial comitments that have prevented me from being able to do it, it isn’t a new idea to me, it’s something that i have put a lot of thought into.
I’m going to go to a few different surgeons for a consultation before deciding where to get it done.
There’s one that seems to of caught my eye the most, about 2 hrs away from me, they’re sending me a brochure & info pack, then ill arrange the consultation.

Thanks for the site reccomendation, i will check that out.

Zirbel wrote:

Zirbel wrote:

meraw wrote:

Zirbel wrote:

Mariam* wrote:
I’ve known two women who got reductions.

Reduction is not the problem! And it’s not the topic here.

how do you know

Because the expression “Boob job” definitely means breast enlargement.

Additionally she was talking about:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
It’s silicone rather than saline im interested in i think.

They never use implants for a reduction. :-)

Yea i was talking about an enlargement.

Mariam* wrote:
I understood the phrase “boob job” to mean any work done to modify the breasts. My point was that the two women I knew who had cosmetic surgery, for physical comfort or to enhance appearance, were both happy with their results. Yes, there are risks. The risk is relatively low and sometimes the results are worth it.

I know one person that had a reduction & the scars are really bad, apparently there are nearly always bad scars left from a reduction.
I don’t really know anyone thats had an enlargement, thats what i was hoping to find on here.

Siren wrote:
it depends what other country you would go to get it done.if its cheaper elsewhere theres probably a reason for it and not a good one. something like that is definately worth paying more for.

ive never had surgery, mine are just naturally big, and it does start to hurt the back. buying supportive bras is hard, sports bras are harder and bikinis are the worst. i actually have to wear 2 bras for sports so they dont bounce around too much, buying clothes is hard too.

i get alot of stick at work for it too. just today we finished early and i asked the assistant manager if i could go early and make up the time later and he said no coz i didnt get me tits out.

if you want it then go for it but you look fine in your pic, i’d love average size

I’m not wanting to go huge with them, i have friends with naturally huge boobs & hear them complain all the time about how uncomfortable they are so i don’t want to subject myself to that.
I’m thinking maybe a UK D cup.

Thanks for saying i look ok, but i have had to live with them & i hate them, its not just the size, it’s the shape as well.
I thought i might need an uplift and anlargement, but the surgeon has said just the implants would prob be enough to give me the shape i want.

Mine aren’t even big, but i have to put up with rude comments at work, it’s just one of the things we have to put up with when working with uncultured men!

ilivelife wrote:
I just don’t think it’s worth the risk.

When things go wrong, they can go badly wrong - here’s another story for you:

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/…

If you were told that you were sick and needed an operation, wouldn’t you be scared, worried etc? Why put yourself through the trauma of an operation when you don’t need to?

I will look at your link, thanks.

That is easy to say for someone that hasn’t spent half their life hating the way they look, having to hide from the person you love.
My bf took me to cuba for my b.day & on the day, suprised me with a jacuzzi for us to share, i should of been over the moon but i couldn’t shake the fear of sitting oposite him with my boobs out, in the end i ended up getting in with my bikini top on, something he thought was very odd.

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:

ilivelife wrote:
I just don’t think it’s worth the risk.

When things go wrong, they can go badly wrong - here’s another story for you:

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/…

If you were told that you were sick and needed an operation, wouldn’t you be scared, worried etc? Why put yourself through the trauma of an operation when you don’t need to?

I will look at your link, thanks.

That is easy to say for someone that hasn’t spent half their life hating the way they look, having to hide from the person you love.
My bf took me to cuba for my b.day & on the day, suprised me with a jacuzzi for us to share, i should of been over the moon but i couldn’t shake the fear of sitting oposite him with my boobs out, in the end i ended up getting in with my bikini top on, something he thought was very odd.

That isn’t one of the worst horror stories & she doesn’t even look bad, although she says they only last about 10 yrs, thats worrying, its about £4000 to get it done, paying £4000 every 10 yrs isn’t going to be easy!!

Zirbel wrote:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
I don’t really know anyone thats had an enlargement, thats what i was hoping to find on here.

There are forums where you can find concerned women:
· http://www.justbreastimplants.com/forum/
· http://www.breastaugmentation.name/fo…
· http://forum.breasttalk.co.uk/categor…

(And, please, don’t do it! Small breasts are soooooo pretty!)

Thanks Zirbel, ill look at those now.
It’s not just the size, its the shape, they dont look how they should & now they’ve gone south a bit, i can’t live with them like that, it upsets me every time i get in bed with my bf. It upsets him too.

Zirbel wrote:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:

Zirbel wrote:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
I don’t really know anyone thats had an enlargement, thats what i was hoping to find on here.

There are forums where you can find concerned women:
· http://www.justbreastimplants.com/forum/
· http://www.breastaugmentation.name/fo…
· http://forum.breasttalk.co.uk/categor…

(And, please, don’t do it! Small breasts are soooooo pretty!)

Thanks Zirbel, ill look at those now.
It’s not just the size, its the shape, they dont look how they should & now they’ve gone south a bit, i can’t live with them like that, it upsets me every time i get in bed with my bf. It upsets him too.

Oh, maybe you need only a surgical tightening up (called “lift”) — without implants! Enquire about it!
See also several doctors’ answers: http://www.realself.com/question/brea…

No because that would leave them still small, or even smaller than they are.

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
From Wikipedia, “Nonetheless, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration emphasised that breast implants are not lifetime devices. The longer a woman has silicone gel-filled breast implants, the more likely she is to experience complications.”

I’m happy with the ones I have (born with), thank you. I wonder how many doctors would mention the above statement if I were requesting implants…. Makes you wonder.

Im finding out from zirbels links that saline implants last about 7 yrs, silicone lasts about 10 yrs.
Are you saying they’ll last for less & less time the longer i have them?
Thats a hell of a lot of money to have to keep spending!!

Mariam* wrote:
If the appearance causes you grief and lowers your self esteem, and you can afford the cost and have considered the risk, I say go for it. Surgery is never something to be taken lightly, but if it can make you feel better about yourself and you don’t have any appearance related unresolved psychological issues, you should do it.

In my opinion you look great in that photo, but what counts is your opinion.

They have been the bain of my life since i got them, just getting worse as i get older.
I can’t easily afford it at all, but i just got a £2000 pay out from a past employer after winning a court case, so that’s half of the money ill need for it, i could get finance for the rest, or the bf has offered to lend me the rest, although i’d feel more comfortable getting a loan or finance.
Ive hit that age now where i can be a bit more relaxed about the way i look, but where my boobs are concerned, i just can’t ignore how much i hate them, i will only take my top/bra off in bed once the lights are off.
My bf walks round naked all the time, i want to do the same, but it defeats the object when i have to keep a bra on.
If i have to get dressed infront of him, i turn my back to him, i have no problem with him seeing the rest of my body, but i have to hide my boobs, i don’t want to live like that anymore.

Thanks a lot :)

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
Additionally, “The U.S. Food and Drug Administration established the age ranges for women seeking breast implants; for breast reconstruction, silicone-gel filled implants and saline-filled implants were approved for women of all ages; for breast augmentation, saline implants were approved for women 18 years of age and older; silicone implants were approved for women 22 years of age and older. Because each breast implant device entails different medical risks, the minimum age of the patient for saline breast implants is different from the minimum age of the patient for silicone breast implants — because of the filler leakage and silent shell-rupture risks; thus, periodic MRI screening examinations are the recommended post-operative, follow-up therapy for the patient.
In other countries, in Europe and Oceania, the national health ministries’ breast-implant policies do not endorse periodic MRI screening of asymptomatic patients, but suggest palpation proper — with or without an ultrasonic screening — to be sufficient post-operative therapy for most patients.”

I just turned 30 so the age restrictions don’t apply to me, thats another part of the reason i want to get this done, i’m getting old!!

vikram wrote:
Hey unless and until some crazy boyfriend insist to you don’t do it.You have nice boobs. Some football size boobs looks weird. It is beneficial to fat chested girls or some actresses whose carrier dependences on it. Like all other surgeries it will cause lot of pain too many medicines and lot of waste of money.

I don’t want huge ones, i’m thinking a D cup (UK)
I’m not too worried about the pain.
The cost bothers me, and, there’s soo many different procedures it’s just hard to know what to choose.

i am reading everyones links, but theres a lot of info, iots taking me a while to get through it all, thanks guys.

crackers wrote:
Sorry,Joe I cant really help you on this subject.
What I have seen of you,looks well proportioned.
Just make sure you investigate thoroughly before you make any hasty decicions.

Hope it all works out in your favour,whatever choice you make.
Good luck!

Thank you.
Good bras play a role, but once they come off, reality is back.
I will be investigating properly, thats what i mad ethis post for.
Thank you.

Zirbel wrote:

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
For many women, breast size is an important part of feeling good, desirable and normal. Most women compare themselves to a cultural idea of beauty. Having a breast augmentation procedure can greatly improve self-esteem for many women. It can make a woman feel more like the ideal by drastically improving the way she views herself.

Definitely vice versa:
Boosting the self-esteem can greatly improve the satisfaction with the existing body and breast shape!

What ever breast surgeons and cosmeticians tell about how breast correction should be helpful for the self-esteem improvement: It’s a selfish argumentation to improve and raise their business! (It’s a multi-million industry!)

No offence, but as a man, you can’t fully understand it.
There have been times when i have had my body exactly how i wanted it, firm, toned, tanned, but always i have had to hide my boobs & rely on good bra’s, so it isn’t just a self esteem issue.
I was a model when i was 20, but wouldn’t do topless, i know the rest of me looked good then, i didn’t have low self esteem then, just hated my boobs, same issue now, but now ive left it too long & now i’m old so the rest of me isn’t as good.
I can live with the rest of my body, just not the boobs.

Grim_Hardcastle wrote:
I know nothing about such things, but i can say that i would prefer unaltered any day regardless.

Even if you didn’t like the way the unaltered ones looked?
What if your girl didn’t like them, would you have a problem with her changing them?

TranquilTempest wrote:
A colleague of mine has just come back to work after having a boob job in February, and she’s had no problems so far, she just said it was very sore afterwards. I would weigh the pros and cons and take your time thinking about it. Either way, you’ll know what’s right for you.

If you wouldn’t mind & it wouldn’t be unapropriate, could you question her?
The implants can be done infront or behind the muscle, i want to know from someone thats had it done their opinion on this.
also, does she have to be careful with them, are they fragile, or can you live your life as normal?

FatB.Three wrote:
As a sex starved mail the only Boob Job I am interested in, is playing, fondling and kissing them.
However, may I add; too much of a good thing can be a bad thing; also, anything bigger than you can fit in one’s mouth is a waste of material.
Further; if the man in your life is no longer satisfied with you, then get another man and do not risk your good health and looks on something which may make things worse.

Remember; the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence.

I’m not wanting to go huge with them, only a bit bigger.
He isn’t unsatisfied with me or my boobs, he insists that he loves them, i know he loves me, but he doesn’t like the fact that i keep them hidden most of the time & wont walk around naked infront of him cos of them.
He isn’t really keen for me to have the boob job, but he knows how much i want it.
He isn’t encouraging me to do it, but he will support me when i do it.
No need to change the man in my life, i just want to have more confidence around him.

The☠President wrote:
she is asking for about a boob job, not asking to be talked out of it sheesh

I am asking for info about it, good and bad, anything that anyone knows & thinks is relevant to it.

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
I trust BF(J.N) to weigh the pros and cons and make the best choice FOR HER. She would be wise (which I believe she is) to seek medical counsel from several experienced surgeons both in and out of the practice of enhancement/plastic surgery fields. And based on those conversations and self research make a well reasoned decision if it is right for her or not.
If she is out to impress ANYBODY else by having the surgery that would be the exact wrong reason to do so. But if this is for her and to increase her image of self who are we to say she is out of line?
I previously stated my feelings on the subject, but I am happy with mine. I have some other opinions that others may not agree with and that is okay too. I try very hard not to impose my personal choices on others. Unless of course, they ask for it.
I think Zirbel brings up several good points, slanted to one side as it may be. But I truly think she would agree with gathering as much information as possible to make a well informed choice is the key.

*steps down off of soapbox*

I am going to visit several surgeons, i have spoke to a few already & have some of them sending me their info packs.
I will be going for consultations at different places before i do anything.
It’s me that hates my boobs, my bf insists that he likes them, but i will only let him near them when we’re in bed & i’m lying flat & the lights are out.
I should be able to walk around naked infront of him, but i can’t do.
I have hated them all my life, but hating them more as i get older.
I don’t mind if people on this post are for, or against boob jobs, i asked for info, that goes either way.
I know a few people that would love to have a nose job, i don’t really understand what they’re going through as my nose is a normal size & shape, it’s hard to understand someones need to change something, when you don’t have any issues with your own body or looks.

FatB.Three wrote:

The☠President wrote:
she is asking for about a boob job, not asking to be talked out of it sheesh

Fine, then go ahead and have it done, it does not affect me, I was just answering an Invite.
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Original on YouTube.com

Original on YouTube.com

Thanks for the videos, i am certainly not wanting to go anywhere near that size, i’m only going one or two sizes bigger than what i naturally have, i don’t want them looking really fake.

griffin195 wrote:
better late than never. on the answer. Yes had several on account of the mastectomy
the real looks marvelous. At 195 yrs old i joke because i have age defying breasts
they will never SAG lol. they need to get redone every 10 yrs.
They hollow breast is a disaster. but i love they way they look braless under a Tee

I remember we’ve spoke about this before.
Is it saline or silicone you had?
So do you have to have it replaced every 10 yrs, or do you have to get it replaced more the longer you have it?

❤♡♡❤ wrote:
I have no personal knowledge on the subject. Only heard about what everyone else has: the cost, the risks and complications…

Joe, I guess it’s not going to change your mind about this but I still want to say, I think you are an awesome beautiful girl/woman, inside and out. You radiate and I think anyone should love you just as you are and consider themselves lucky that you are part of their life. Furthermore, I’ve seen pictures of you, one in particular of a certain cat named Leroy, who seemed quite comfortable with his head against those boobs you are so unsatisfied with. I haven’t seen the whole picture but from what I’ve seen, they’re perfectly fine just as they are. And you have killer legs, a beautiful face… All I’m saying is that I love you just the way you are. Nobody has the perfect body they wish they had. I certainly don’t! Is your boyfriend physically perfect? I shouldn’t matter that much…

Love you, Joe. I’ve read your previous replies and understand that you’ve been thinking about doing this for a long time. If you really think it will make you feel better about yourself and more comfortable walking around naked, then go for it. I just thought I’d tell you what my point of view is and how much I think anyone should consider themselves very lucky to be part of your life and have the chance to love you just the way you are.

Mmmmwuah! (lol) X

ML

Si keeps telling me i don’t need it done, but he can see how much i want it & will support me, he doesn’t dislike fake ones, but insists he loves mine, it does bother him that i keep them hidden a lot & i don’t really like him touching them as i’m so self conscious of them, so he’d be in favour of it just so he could get near them.

Yes i remember that pic, although i’m sure Leroy the cat will still love me :)

Thank you for everything you’ve said, you’re great!!
While i do have many body hangups, none of them bother me as much as my boobs, i can live with the other things i’m not happy with, but not this.

No he isn’t perfect, none of us are, but he’s comfortable around me, he just accepts that i love him just as he is, i envy that really.

thanks ML, i love you xx

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
BF. Just had a brilliant idea…
Buy one of these to wear: http://www.incrediblegifts.com/sexyap…
A whole lot cheaper than going under the knife.

Awesome idea, that’d be even better value than wonder bra’s!!

Phantom gentleman wrote:
thanks for the invite. unfortunately I dont really have anything to add. only know one person who had em done and she had complications with leaking so they had to fix em. if your set on going through with it I would say chose your surgeon carefully. I know you may be growing tired of “hearing it” but Id also like to add my humble opinion to the list of those allready stated. You allready look beautiful, I fail to see how an enlargement could be such a boon. (I understand, not my call but had to make sure you knew.)

and bear in mind that once its done in order to maintain your going to have to be prepared to pay the cost in 6-10 years. sorry, wish I could help you more.

Where did you get the 6 - 10 yrs from?
Ive heard that silicone ones may need to be replaced every 10, saline maybe every 7 yrs.
It’s silicone i’m interested in really, heard a few things that have turned me off saline.

Thanks for the compliment :)

So, your friend, did she have to pay any extra to get them fixed, or was it all covered?

Rosabella wrote:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:

That is easy to say for someone that hasn’t spent half their life hating the way they look, having to hide from the person you love.

My bf took me to cuba for my b.day & on the day, suprised me with a jacuzzi for us to share, i should of been over the moon but i couldn’t shake the fear of sitting oposite him with my boobs out, in the end i ended up getting in with my bikini top on, something he thought was very odd.

Odd and sad. Why do you need different boobs? Why do you hate the ones you were given? They are probably perfectly designed to go with the rest of your body.

(Have you tried boob exercises?)

Normal and smaller breasts don’t sag as you get older. Big ones will be hangin’ by the time you’re 40.

It’s not breasts that make someone sexy. It’s what’s in your head & heart. But you probably won’t believe that.

I have tried boob exercises, i do quite a lot of weight lifting & kettle bells, there are weights machines at my gym designed for the chest, i have a decent amount of muscle, but it hasn’t made any difference to my boobs.

Normal, smaller ones do sag, i have them, i know, thats the problem.
I can’t feel sexy when i have these boobs, i’ve hated them for too long now.

Rosabella wrote:
Could you describe what you hate so much about those breasties of yours? :)

Everything!!
They aren’t where they’re suposed to be, they’re empty, they’re not the same size, they only look good with a good bra on, i can’t bare to look at them, i even turn my back to the mirror when i get out of the shower.

RoughDiamond wrote:
If you scar easily, you’ll regret it. Make sure you don’t keloid or get hypertrophic scars because they don’t fade and they can become huge bumps. EW.

I just had shoulder surgery to get a growth removed and it sucks. No more tank tops for me!

I don’t know that i do scar easily, but from what i’ve found out, they cut in the crease under the breast, or go in through the arm pit, i think i’d rather have it under the breast.
I’m going to google the faults you’ve just pointed out, i don’t think anyones mentioned them to me yet.

Araz wrote:
Why are all of you so against her getting a boob job? I know what it’s like to have a part of your body you can’t stand (ugh, my nose) and its this stigma that prevents people from improving their bodies when they really, really want to.

help.com is full of perfect people with perfect bodies, people like me & you with faults just aren’t heard of ;)

FatB.Three wrote:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:

FatB.Three wrote:
As a sex starved mail the only Boob Job I am interested in, is playing, fondling and kissing them.
However, may I add; too much of a good thing can be a bad thing; also, anything bigger than you can fit in one’s mouth is a waste of material.
Further; if the man in your life is no longer satisfied with you, then get another man and do not risk your good health and looks on something which may make things worse.

Remember; the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence.

I’m not wanting to go huge with them, only a bit bigger.
He isn’t unsatisfied with me or my boobs, he insists that he loves them, i know he loves me, but he doesn’t like the fact that i keep them hidden most of the time & wont walk around naked infront of him cos of them.
He isn’t really keen for me to have the boob job, but he knows how much i want it.
He isn’t encouraging me to do it, but he will support me when i do it.
No need to change the man in my life, i just want to have more confidence around him.

I am pleased he still loves you, and I am sure he will support you in whatever you decide, good luck.

The videos were only for fun, I went looking for “big boobs” on youtube.

A pass time many of helps men do on a regular basis! ;)

Ol’ Doc Ralph wrote:
It doesn’t look like you need a boob job to me. In fact in my opinion smaller boobs are better. They seem to be more sensitive and cause less problems. Sagging breasts look awful and the weight of huge boobs makes your back hurt.

Besides fake boobs really do not look natural. When you lay on your back they do not fall to the side and they don’t jiggle and they don’t feel as soft. They always seem harder. Just my input. Bigger is not always better.

first you say i don’t need one, then you say sagging ones look awful, i know sagging ones look awful, that’s why i want new ones!

Everyone seems to be fixating on me getting something really drastic, i only want to go one or two sizes bigger, im not going huge, but i want them lifted up.

~Empress~ Hazelnut wrote:
Hmm Bigger breast cost money.

I have a 36DD, i love them very much. I have even thought of naming them. But i find i love your breast. They look soo nice,and you can wear soo many shirts and dresses without an issue of straps and bla bla

If its something you want. Well go ahead. As you have been reading the risk, all the cons and pros of getting a boobie plusssed

I have had some one who did get implants but more in my family of people who has gotten them DECREASED

But my friend find they feel great and they look great ive seen them. As for scaring and all that nightmare. It depends on the doctor. That is up to you to do your research and of course sometimes its not depending on just the doctor but you as a patient and your body.

SO Best of luck :) if you choose to get them..

But id say you dont need them your kinda hot as is ;)

Heck if i had it in me to look your way i would ;) haha

Thats the problem though, i can’t wear whatever i like cos if i buy a fitted top or dress, there’s always too much material left over in the chest area, and i can’t wear something without a bra so strapless tops & dresses are totally out.

I was just on holiday in cuba with my bf & had a nightmare finding bikini’s, padded ones looked obviously padded & none padded ones offered no support & made them pretty much disapear.
I’m too young to have boobs like this.
If i was skinny then they’d prob not look as bad, but i’m not, i’m average size, with boobs too small for my body.

My mum has very small boobs, but she’s 10 inches shorter than me & of a very slight build, my sis is also of a smaller build, her’s aren’t really big, but they suit her body, my body just isn’t in proportion & i hate it.

Thank you ;)

Sometimes you can’t even tell if they’re fake.

I’d been using the gym a lot & doing kettle bell, weight lifting & boxing classes, so i was ok with my body, just not my boobs, walking round naked but wearing a bra / bikini top kind of defeats the object of walking round naked.
Thing is, any other part of my body i’m not happy with, i can change with hard work & determination, but there’s n0othing i can do about this problem without surgery.

I don’t have a flat bottom.

Thanks PJ.
Has she had to have it redone in 15 yrs or are they still the original ones?
Do you know if it is saline or silicone?

im hearing more in favour for silicone than saline, and the theory seems to be that saline lasts longer.

Just having issues with the financial side of it :(

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
Ever heard of http://www.mya.co.uk/ ?

It’s MYA that i’ve been talking to most about this, trhere’s 4 different places i’ve been looking into but mya seems to be taking the lead so far.

Dr. Ralph wrote:
I have heard that saline implants are best. A lot of people have problems when the silicone leaks or hardens.

griffin195 wrote:

BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
im hearing more in favour for silicone than saline, and the theory seems to be that saline lasts longer.

Just having issues with the financial side of it :(

Not that an expert, I’m not Pam Anderson, LOL
But if they leak saline won’t hurt you.
Were as silicone going into your body might?

I can see the logic that saline might be the safer option, but as far as i understand, they don’t last as long as silicone, they will need replacing sooner, thus costing more money more often.

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
Question. Is your bf in favor of this cosmetic surgery and can he contribute $$$ to having it done (since he will be the main beneficiary…)?

He says he isn’t in favour, or against it, i don’t think he took me seriously at first, but since i’ve been looking into it properly & there’s cosmetic surgery brocures coming through the door he’s getting that i’m serious.
When i told him i was thinking of taking a bank loan rather than finance from the surgery to pay half, he’s said there’s other options rather than taking a loan & that we’re in it together.
I think he is in favour of it really, i’ve seen the pics of women he looks at & most of them have fake ones so he obviously likes that perfect but fake look.

I’m having problems at work, so until things calm down, or i get a new & better job, i’d better wait, i don’t want to be getting into financial trouble if my job & finances are unstable right now.
This is the closest i’ve come to getting it done, i had half the money i needed, i just needed to borrow the other half & now it’s slipping further away & i’m mighty pissed off about it!!!!

Thanks but things will either work out with work, or they won’t, nothing will change it, it’s just a waiting game, but thanks for the offer :)

I don’t have anything to sell, i live light, up until recently i lived out of a suitcase due to moving around the country a lot, i made sure i never owned more than i could fit in my car, so i was always prepared for moving again, i still haven’t accumilated much stuff so there’s nothing to sell.

I could get finance from the surgeon, or my bf has kind of said he will help out, but the idea was, it’s between £4000 - £5000 for the procedure, i was going to pay half up front, then borrow the rest, but now with things uncertain with my employment, i can’t risk spending £2500 incase work doesn’t sort itself out, i would need that money to live on for a while, and i would be unable to make payments towards the money i borrowed, it’s really pissing me off, i really wanted to get it done really soon, i’ve just turned 30 & that would of been something great to help me forget i’m getting old ;)

I don’t like the idea of my bf paying for it, i have never yet even accepted a loan off him, but in this case, having no other sensible options, i could live with a loan from him, there wouldn’t be a set deadline to pay him back & unlike a bank, there would be no problem if i got behind with the payments, also, it would be only one weeks wages for him if he lent it to me, so it’s not as though it would skint him.

I would have no problem taking on more work, it’s just that i live in the moddle of nowhere so there aren’t many jobs going, i have a casual 2nd job, but not much chance of increasing my hours there.

I have applied for a new job, if i get it, it will pay twice what i earn now, therefor rendering all these financial issues obsolete.