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Ok so, i’m 16, and this year on february, i met a guy

online on busuu.com, it’s a safe website since it’s worldwide for people who wants to learn languages and talk to people from around the world. This special guy is 15 years old, and we’ve been messaging on facebook, chatting on skype and seeing each other through our webcams. And he’s incredibly mature for his age, he’s funny, honest, open, we wrote each other a LOT about our past, we both had bullying when we were younger. He’s very smart, studious, he’s like everything, and he doesn’t like *****, he hates that dance, ‘grinding’ and he doesn’t want to date anyone because he thinks it’s stupid because it’s not like you’re going to marry that person and he well there are a lot of things i can tell about him, i’m trying to find something bad about him actually haha because everyone has a dark side and i want to know him more and more. We live in the same continent but in different countries. So i wanted to live in his country since i was like 9, it’s been kind of my dream, then i didn’t care where i wanted to live, i just wanted to live in another country, and well now that i met him i want to live where he lives. He will come to my country and stay for a whole week next year on july and he said he wanted to be with me like i’d be his ‘personal guide’. We talk different languages, he speaks english and he’s learning spanish and i already speak english fluenty but i still have grammar mistakes and don’t know a lot of words so he helps me and i help him. So next year i’ll graduate from school and the following thing i’m gonna do , it’s to go to college and save money to visit him after my first year of college. My career is 4 years. And i don’t know, i guess i’d like to visit him every year or he may do that too. And after graduating from college i’ll work here like for 2 year and try to succed, i want to be a publicist. And after that i’d go live where he lives, he would be still in college tho. Anyways, we’re just friends right now, and we don’t really flirt, we just talk a lot, we flirted but a little. So i’m just worried about the future, i’m happy that he’ll come here next year but who knows what will happen then, who knows!!!! i try not to worry and try to enjoy what i have now, but it’s hard not to think about the future and if we will ever gonna be together. What’s your opinion, advice, anything?!

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Siren offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

the thing with the internet is that people can be whoever they want to be, and theyll tell you whatever you want to hear.

live your life, meet real people

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t get to hung up on this guy yeah he might actually be who he says he is but you’ve not even met him yet and you don’t really know him fully so you shouldn’t get too worried about him until after you’ve met him at least. He might be a nice guy but I definately wouldn’t move to his country just because of him.. just take it slow and see how it goes when you first meet him.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Be very very careful, lots of bad stuff can happen. I’m not saying he’s bad, but don’t meet him alone.

http://www.thea21campaign.org/

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Sharath offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

Firstly, thanks for the website, I want to learn French and you gave me a good website for that! :)

Well, my suggestion is that you meet him, be friends, get to know him better, but don’t have any feelings for him or any expectations from him! He may or may not be a good guy, you cannot tell that with absolute certainty by knowing him for just 3 months, especially on the internet!
You don’t create your life based on him, trust me, you’ll regret it if things don’t turn out well, I’m telling you from my personal experience!
And what ni said is also a good thing to consider, it’s good to be safe!

Well, I hope he’s really a good person and things turn out well! Good luck! And think well before you act! :)

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