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I’m considered to be a dorky lesbian who’s very soft-spoken and shy.
Four years ago during my junior year at an all-girls high school, I became infatuated with this beautiful girl who was a grade above me. I think that I made it obvious that I had a crush on her because she would constantly playfully say hi to me, and I would get nervous around her. When she was about to graduate, I really wanted to tell her how I felt… but she was busy. So, I just congratulated her. After a while, I mentioned to her on myspace that I hope she did not assume that I liked her as more than a friend and she said that she thought I just admired her. I have to admit that I am neither fashionable nor do I have a very interesting personality. I am now 20 years old, but still dorky and unfashionable… We attend the same University, and she would constantly say hi and compliment me. The problem is that she is very social and parties a lot, and I don’t drink or party. She’s bisexual… but I am not the type of girl that she likes. A couple of days ago, she commented on my photo and said, “awe. You’re adorable. ”—meaning that I still look like a kid to her. I like her and would like to attract her; however, I do not know how to go about this process.
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