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Im not sure if my boyfriend is being selfish or if its just me.
Recently i’ve been really under the weather, sore throat, blocked nose, achey muscles and banging headaches. So last night I asked if it was possible for him to come round and see me to keep me company. He doesnt drive so he walks most places or gets a lift off of his mum. He told me he couldnt make it because he couldnt get a lift and he wasnt up for walking (which was fair enough as the weather was awful) so I said that it is fine I would see him at the weekend. I rang him to have a chat before I went to sleep and I could hear cars in the back ground, I asked him where he was and he said (reluctantly) he was walking to meet his mates to do shisha which is further away than my house. I was too angry to even talk to him. Im not sure if its me over reacting but he does this alot to me and he just says im crazy and need to stop over reacting…
not only does he do this but we are going on holiday soon so im saving every penny i get as he doesnt earn very much so we can have a good time and hes always complaining it wont be enough yet is wasting our holiday money, most of which is mine, on pointless things like shisha and takeaways…
AND to put the cherry on the icing his ‘best friend’ is my ex who admitted he was trying to break us up yet he still trusts and hangs around with him…. help?
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