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I THINK I SCARED HIM OFF.

I’m 25 and the guy that i like is 35. He works as a ups delivery man and he delivers packages to the store that i work in. I had been observing him for many months. Besides his good looks, i noticed how respectful and nice he was to everyone. He just seemed like a pleasant person. Soon enough i was smitten.one day i worked up enough nerves to say how i felt. at first i played it off as if someone else had liked him by saying “i heard someone likes you”. he asked me who and i asked if he was seeing anyone and he said yes. i told him that since he;s with someone that it didnt matter who anymore. He went on guessing who and asked if it was the new girl. i told him no. then i told him it was me. he paused and asked if it was really me. i said yes and i said the he was cute, he said i was blind. two days later he came up to me and appologized for being a jerk. . . a week later i find out that he is talking to the new girl. . . .WTH?

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Blue Simian offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

He’s just not that into you. Life goes on.

Or:

He was just talking to her and you’re blowing it out of proportion. Go talk to him and see if he’ll go out with you.

Or:

His answer was a sort of fail-safe. He might get hit on all the time and prefers to know more about the kind of woman he goes out with. Go talk to him and ask him out.

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11 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 9 minutes after post)

he’s a flirt and told you he’s a jerk and he gets it all the time … hope his choice of the new girl doesn’t press you to jump in there and give it up

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