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Pregnant with an unsupportive partner

Hi there, I am feeling upset worn out and uncared for by my partner of 4 years. I am currently 3 months pregnant and things are not going the way i thought they would. My partner is normally a caring,and calm sort of guy, but lately he has been a nasty,unsupportive jerk who only thinks of themselves. Since we found out i am pregnant, he has not bothered to do anything extra to help me out,he never bothers to ask how i am feelings, he takes no interest in the pregnancy and he is constantly critisizing me and telling me i need to do more with my life and I need to change things about myself if he is to stick around.I am tired of being told i am to blame for everything that goes wrong in our lives and our relationship, He is completely thoughtless and can never take any responsibility for any of his own actions. I am tired of having to back down defeated and feel bad about myself.Never mind the fact that I am a mother of 1 child already,i also work and take care of all the chores but apparently I am selfish and needy and why should he do anymore because he works his **** off for me.Also he smokes marijuana and dosent go a day without it and when he dosent have any watch out. Tonight he totally lost the plot at me yelled and swore at me and forced me out of bed to sleep on the couch. Not sure how much more i can take, this pregnancy is miserable for me how can i make him see what he is doing? sorry if i have rambled abit but please can anybody offer any advise?????

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