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A girl I like is going to be gone most of the summer, but she’ll be here next week.

I have a day set and I want to ask her out, but I also want her to hang out with our group of friends. Should I ask her out now or when school starts for homecoming?

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Newklear offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

I would ask her ASAP before she makes plans. If you wait too long she might make plans and when you go to ask her out she might definitely have plans already and will definitely not be able to go with you even if she wants to.

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1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

She already said the day I asked was fine, that’s not the problem

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Newklear offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
She already said the day I asked was fine, that’s not the problem

So what is the problem?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

I’d have a fun day with her and ask her out only if it feels right at the time.
You might find asking her out and not seeing her for a month will be detrimental to your relationship.
Assuming she wants to go out with you, she’ll be super excited at first, then won’t see you for a month and it may all wear off.
Ask her out when after summer, then you can follow it up with some choice hanging out to consolidate your new relationship.

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