it hurts when people you trust betray you like that. But they are your friends and they are human. people make mistakes and if they were trying to defend you they must have thought it was the best thing to do, for you, for your sake. talk do them, don’t push them away.. being alone is not the best thing expecially if you are going through stuff. Make them understand why it hurt you, why they shouldn’t do it again and wait until everybody will have something else to talk about.. all the best =)
A very similar thing happened to me once. My very best friend Orion had taken a rumor someone told him, and spread it. He wouldn’t even tell me what it was about. When I passed people, they looked at me, whispered, and made weird gestures. They were probably just jealous cuz I’m so awesome” i thought. it apparently was true. People don’t like your perfect beauty or personality, and when they spot or hear one flaw (aka rumor) they jump on it like flies, and spread it like wildfire. They are jealous because of their sociallly misshapen brain, compared to your awesomeness.
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We can’t help you properly unless you describe this thing that is so hurtful to talk about. You’re anonymous here.
Eventually, I forgave Orion (after I slammed him into a fence, which was humiliating for him, becuase I am a girl)
I know that some people may want to, but don’t try and get them back, it will make it a nightmare, and worse. Let karmaget them back, and wait awhile. Maybe you just need a few weeks away from these frieds. Then try and make amends. Ask them wy they did it.
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Well, why on earth have you told them such a secret thing?
I asked them never to speak of it again, not even to me because it is so hurtful to talk about.
If so, you would have done better to tell such things to strangers who even don’t know you — or to remain resolutely silent.
Now you have to pay for your naivete.
Besides: This “friends” are obviously not real friends — next time choose only the very best.
its always good to talk about things. Are these your real friends? Will they be there in the long run? Do you eat lunch with them, do you ditch other people to go hang with them. It it a win-win, or a one-sided relationship. (one of my friends has a friend who is just friends with him because he has power
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Lessons learned. You now know that you can’t trust someone so easily. It would be better to just move on and not let this affect you too much.
try n “Resolve it completley”
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I told them this because I needed to clear something up which made me look worse. BASICALLY when I was drunk people saw self harm scars and I was unaware. Friends later told me this and weren’t very nice about it and became angry with me. I had to explain to other friends of mine who apparently saw these scars as well why I did it and that I wasn’t sure why these people were angry with me. I thought it all went down reasonably well and they promised they’d never speak of it again, but they let me down and I’m hugely embarrassed. I thought they were good friends, but I was very wrong and I should never have said a word. I’ve decided I’m going to cut them off because I really can’t be doing with the drama and I’m fed up of people talking about me.
some one has rightly said, think before you speak. now do not you worry the situation will be normal again, however you please do not care what they speak about you and move on. If somebody ask you about, smile and move on. These things happen in life, but experience teaches that we should not take them seriously. Remind yourself that i have to learn by mistakes. Wish you good luck in future. Bye.
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