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i can’t seem to get out of my head.

I don’t like my life even if nothing is wrong with it. I feel like I can’t bear to grow old and everything is just too hard… i am so tired. I am scared of failing. The more I get scared, the more I fail. What is wrong with me?

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lovepri1 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

I am sorry you are feeling this way. happiness is something we need to create within. Is there something you want to do, something you love, your passion that you have been ignoring? Is there any particular situation you are in or something particular happened that scares you or makes you unhappy? some more details might help.

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1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

what have you failed at? life is not our past or future it is what we do now and only ever now. the past has gone and holds no boundrys for the future. the future is a madeup fantasy.

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discocats222 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

BE STRONG!
you are awesome!
you are beauty!
you have it better than some people

I had an emotional problem just like this.

My soloution was be positve! VIBRANT! Bursting with joy!!!!!!!!!! It may sound ridicilous, but it really works!
10 hugs a day!

Say hi to your friends!
Say hi to your enemies!

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

I don’t know what to tell you.. i just haven’t accomplished anything i wanted to or if I have , it wasn’t in the way I wanted to. everybody around me is moving on and I always feel like i’m in the same spot, and always will be. I have no will to do the things I love. its so hard to wake up sometimes. i just feel.. detached. i can’t talk about this with my friends and family, everybody has they’re problems and i feel like they will take it as something silly. I get that it sounds like that, but it doesn’t feel silly.

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wil offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

The problem could be in your head.
http://www.mental-health-today.com/de…
If this applies to you, see a health professional.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

dont compare yourself to others, look at everything you did in the past as part of your experience that will one day come in handy, “especially failures”, remember the purpose of life is to live it to the full, every minute and every second, know as much about the world and universe you live in as possible, and smile and be joyful.

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