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girlfriend help please
maybe to some this isn’t very significant but to me it is.
i was messing about on her phone yesterday and i looked through the messages ( i did trust her ) and then i saw a txt with her friend about her finishin work at 3 - 4pm and then going to see her and have a bbq around her house (i dont know who else was going to be there). she has told me nothing about this, i dont know if she has or she will go for a bbq with her friend but she also told me she started work at 7 and finished at 11:30…. so she is lying to me either way? now to me i am very insecure and she knows that… as i have been cheated on the past this is how it started a simple lie at first which then turned into it. i think one of the main reasons is that because she has been having trouble from her x… like him calling her, writing her a letter and txting her… so that really doesn’t help. she has told me about her x n when he txts etc and she said she will never lie to me… but she has? what should i do? i have no idea…
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