Situation help: I want my friend to leave my house? - Help.com

just tell her. say you need time to yourself to do stuff. or fake a migraine

If you don’t want to be blunt about… Tell her you have plans and have to be going. Then grab your keys and point her to the door. :)

Tell her to leave. Shes not being on the level with you.

Just say you have to go.

tell her that you want to see her home

o my God
lol……… tell her thet you love to see her home

or tell her that your friend will come to your home and you must to ger ready for them

you should have walked her to the door the first night, saying my mom won’t let anyone sleep over anymore - now, say I don’t feel well either, you have to go home. I’m not supposed to have anyone staying over anyway when my mom’s not here. You have to leave now. Walk her to the door and open it. She’s a leech and if you let her, she’ll stay forever. Doesn’t sound like a friend you need. Get mad and put her out. Now.

Give her a bill.

nebula, wrote:
I’m not inviting her over again, don’t worry.
I’m not inviting anyone over again. -_-

She ate all of my cookies, too.

Houses can be cleaned, cookies can be baked…
My point is, she is who she is and exactly who you know her as.
I’m sure you will invite her over again and as such… just be grateful for your friendship.
Perhaps next time, you will be better prepared with the truth.
“MUM SAID NO SLEEP OVERS!”
Best of luck. :)

No way, don’t let her come back at all - she’s a pain in the butt - why would you invite misery and stupid to your life? yeck

nebula, wrote:
She ate all of my cookies, too.

Maybe your cookies are what made her sick and she saved you from the misery!

I don’t wanna belittle your condition, I have anxiety issues too, and I get panic attacks…but you’re going to have to learn to deal with people who are belligerent and a little gross. They are everywhere. Deciding to never invite ANYONE over is a huge misstep on your part.

Just be more assertive. Tell her you prefer if she uses the other washroom. Tell her you need some time alone. People will respond to that, and if they don’t then they are sociopaths and while a lot of people are rude…few people will ignore a direct request to get out or to use a different washroom.

All I’m saying is…maybe it didn’t have to be such a big deal. If you had been direct with her instead of trying to hint and suggest at things, a lot if not all of these problems may have been avoided.

I have a similar problem with a friend of mine. I have very little tolerance for people who invite themselves over to my place or wear out their welcome. I ended up charging one of my friends for basically inviting himself to a house I rented on my vacation. I told him in advance that he can stay a few nights as long as he contributes some money for rent. Obviously, he did not like the idea and thought I was being unfair, but I refuse to let someone be a freeloader at my expense. If you don’t put your foot down people will just walk all over you.

There are various ways to work on this. Here’s a very simple one: Make a folder labelled “Assertive Communication”, start googling and saving pages, notes, tips, suggestions, videos, advice. Study regularly and never have to be quite so confused again.

Do not be afraid to say to NO! Otherwise this sort of thing will present itself in your life over again and again until you can stand up and speak to it. She is not worth time and is a taker, tell her No next time. Just say sorry but you can not come in I am busy and shut the door.
She will not like it, but did you like having her override your privacy? Then she will stop.
Be well
Do not worry there are worse things in life..
Agape

I find this post rather hilarious…

My advise: next time, hang out at HER place =)

When im sick sad and need cookies i stay home. Your place is probably nicer than hers.