Will people please advise me to the best course of action to deal with the guy in the chat dialog below?
We have been dating for a few months and it had been a bit up and down as he has a lot going on in his life right now. I really like him but hes been hot and cold - a lot probably due to his situation. What advice do you have that I can do to make him fall head over heals for me, forget his exgf (who he speaks of but had a bad relationship with) and see that I am a great thing to have in his life - make him want, need, crave me… (i know the chat below is vague, but give your best thoughts please) :)
him: whats on your mind?
me: life i guess…work, dog, you…
him: oh, don’t waste your thoughts on me. I’m dead weight until i get a new job
me: dont be negative…why would you say that -
him: because i feel my life is so unstable need to focus. should have applied to many more jobs
I’m in a bad situation
me: i understand to the extent that i can, but your situation is transient not who you are
Sent at 11:04 AM on Friday
him: i guess
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