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So I have only had one boyfriend and I really love him, but…

.. I met him in school and we instantly became best friends, up to the point to where he broke up with his gf to go out with me. I was very happy with him, but I found out he was not. He told me he felt like I didn’t love him because I didn’t say it enough, and that I never had time for him. I never had a boyfriend so he came up with an idea….We would brake up for 3 months then get back together. He said it was for my own good so I agreed. Now, It has already been 1 month and a half and he already has a gf….and its his ex…..He promised no matter what that we would get back together but how can he do that? In school he would flirt with me, then go to his gf. It breaks my heart seeing them together, even on facebook he tells her that he loves her….My friends say that I deserve better, but I want him, what do I do?? I am scared that in two months he won’t be able to keep his promise even though he promised he would. I am soo scared that my heart will be broken more than it already is. Please help me, please…

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

This guy is bad news. I’m sorry about what he did. You should try to move on.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Everyone says that, And i found out i was like his 10th gf….

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

Hey, don’t worry. There are plenty of wonderful guys that would never do that. Try not to be sad, his actions don’t reflect on you.

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11 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

Definitely not a keeper…the cleaner the break the better you will feel about yourself later. It is hard, I’ve been there, but when you find the right person it’s almost impossible for it not to work out. Relationships are much easier when you’re with the person that’s the perfect match for you. He’s %100 not it. I hope you feel better soon, but give yourself time to heal from the break up.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

You deserve better. I know it hurts, but you will get over him.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

I must also say I think he needs help…like professional…I know all his secrets and his life isnt perfect. I think that if you don’t tell him that you love him constantly then he isn’t going to believe you. He is also very sentimental, he always goes on how he hates life and wants to leave…Anyway, I feel like he needs a girl to love him, even if he doesnt love her back…I will always be his best friend, but I think that is all I can ever be..

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11 months, 1 week ago (47 minutes after post)

It really does sound like the relationship was all one way. I feel sorry for the other girl as well. It’s ok to be friends, but you probably need some space first.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

You are probably right, right now its summer, I will not see him until August.

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