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I knew this guy for about six years.
We had never talked romatically but there was always a mutual attraction between us. We became more interested in each other as high school progressed. After talking for about a year we started dating. We were not the couple that had much in common but we clicked. He understood me and I somewhat understood him. He is more the rule breaker and I am more the goody goody type. I fell for him quickly and before I knew it things were really serious for me. We were tgether for a year and I started thinking that maybe he was in for the long haul. When he told me after a year and a half of dating that he was moving and wanted to break up it was such a shock. He was not moving for college, but for an adventure. I had just started my freshman year at a university and really could not pick up and leave. So to my dismay he broke up with me. I knew it was best for him to get rid of every obstacle(me being an obstacle)that kept him from moving halfway across the country, so I did not put up a very big fight for his sake. He left without giving me much answer as to why he broke it off. So as my freshman year came to a close I found myself in utter sadness. He has been on my mind all year, and I do not know if I should chase after him. We did not keep in touch except for the occasional text or two. He did express to me that he had missed me, but is that any reason to move myself half way across the country so I can be with him? Should I try and rekindle what we had? or is it time to grow up and stop chasing after him?
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